Cat peeing everywhere

Hi everyone can anyone advise me on what to do, my cat wont stop peeing all over my house. Shes been neutered ive taken her to the vet and shes fine. But she wont stop peeing everywhere even to the point that my house stinks and its coming through my ceiling from upstairs so i know its riddled right through my house 😭 shes only 1 year old and i have another female cat who shes inseparable with so i know I really dont want to rehome but now with my little boy on the scene i cant have this anymore. Im at my wits end 😭 I’ve replaced my flooring in my house twice this year alone. Picture of the culprit for attention.

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Could she be jealous and rebelling against your baby? Not sure how old your son is x

possibly it has been a big change in her reality. hes only 3 months, how would you fix that or atleast make her feel at ease? 😪

Hi! I had issues with my cat peeing caused by a uti and stress. We did a combination of things. I’m not sure how much it’ll help if it’s so severe but we used an enzyme cleaner to clean anywhere we know the cat peed as this breaks down the ammonia so the cat doesn’t smell it and want to pee there again! We also bought more litter boxes and a Feliway plug in and placed them in the areas the cat was peeing and this seemed to have helped with the stress side of things. My vet mentioned as a last resort that you can refer them to a cat behaviourist, but not sure if every vet offers the same x

make sure you have cuddles with just her with your son away or in another room. Lots of treats, fusses and plays when your son is asleep or with someone else. Is she an indoor cat? How many litter boxes do you have? My daughter is 2 and started potty training my cats have been peeing in my bath and in the room near the potty. I have them an extra litter tray and lots of cuddles, fingers crossed we've had no surprises from animals in 3 days x

Take her to the vets - girl cats get bladder infections easily and they wee in strange places when it happens.

Or it could be stress, my Frankie went to the toilet on our sofa when we had a load of people over once.
He never does anything like it! Try catnip sprays, a calm environment and treats when she uses the toilet.
And try and see triggers - if she wees try and see what could have caused any anxiety x

shes been to the vets 4 times over it and i got her neutered to see if that would help but it doesnt seem to. Theres 3 litter trays in my house for the two cats. Its mostly around my front door and when i was pregnant she pee’d on me in my bed twice aswell which i think its either me or my baby being born as both cats are exclusively house cats and dont get out 🫣 I’ve tried the feliway sprays and also allow her in to sleep with us at night cause i think that was stressing her out aswell

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