Has anyone ever been mum shamed for their LO having set naps and missing out on some stuff because its Nap time?? I've found having set naps massively improves her mood I guess I'm just looking for reassurance.
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I’ve got set naps too, same here she’s fussy as hell without plus massively affects her night time sleep

I wouldn’t say I’ve been mum shamed but definitely people without kids really don’t get it.
Everything I do revolves around him napping as it effects his night sleep otherwise.

We plan every day round naps too! I also wouldn't say shamed for it but people definitely don't understand how important that good nap is. If my baby is napping at a time we've planned something then I'm sorry but I'll be late 😂
In a couple of years our babies will be in school and it will be the end of this special time, know you're doing the best for your baby and enjoy her happy mood when she wakes 😊 xx

Honestly. I have set naps but I still take my son out and if he falls asleep that’s just tough on everyone else Bevause he needs his naps.
Some people say wake him up and I say no because my poor child needs his nap
And honestly I don’t go out most days Bevause his morning nap is very important so I’d prefer to go out after lunch.

Yep, mainly my mum friends with babies that sleep wherever whenever and don’t get it! My little boy will only sleep in his bed, I know I wouldn’t enjoy myself if I went out when he was due a sleep cause he’d just make my life hell 😂😂😂 wish I had one that would just drop off whenever,,, but no! 😂

I usually just brush off any comments buy saying something like ‘yeah but if she doesn’t nap nobody will have a good time, trust me’