Daily, weekly, monthly chores

I have daily chores, weekly chores, and monthly chores that I like to get done. Many friends and family don't understand it. To me it's rewarding. Anyone else?

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Yes! I love the feeling of a clean house. It’s helped change my perspective from having to clean to enjoying the feeling!

Do you have it written down to share? Very overwhelmed trying to keep up! Lol

Sure.
Daily: I empty trash if it's full, pick up clutter, dust with a duster, vacuum & mop. I make sure the dishes are done as I go so that it isn't overwhelming. Once there is a load of laundry, I do it. It's less overwhelming that way. Usually I am able to do a small load every day. It takes maybe 5 to 10 minutes to fold & put away. I vacuum the baseboards every other day. This cleaning takes about 30 minutes a day since I've gotten the routine down.
Weekly: I do a little extra cleaning in at least one room. This makes the extra cleaning easier on me instead of try to do the entire house. I like to group the bedrooms together & the bathrooms together. I use alcohol to wipe glass items & a wet rag to wipe down furniture. I clean the vents and the windows. Maybe 10-30 minutes.
Monthly: I try to do at least two monthly chores each day. It makes it easier to keep up on. Walls, curtains, bedding, organizing, fridge, freezer & under furniture. Maybe 10-20 minutes.

I've actually been wanting to get a list made up so I can get and keep it all done easier

I use a lovely app called TickTick for check list, things to do, but for housework, I also use Tody, it syncs, so my boyfriend has it too, we paid the measly $5 to share progress, it wasn't fair all housework was on me. The trick is to set up all chores completed to "today" and push other chores not completed forward one day. I give myself a minimum time to do chores: 15 mins but no matter what, i stop at 1 hr. Sometimes dishes/putting away laundry will exceed my hour, which is fine! With ADHD, seeing a long list is overwhelming, but seeing a timer counting down is motivating!

Thank you for the recommendations. I've installed both apps. 😊

Great example. Thanks for sharing!!

in our community

If yall still giving your kids processed food, pls seek help

I understand not everybody can afford healthy ingredients all the time, but I’m seeing so many moms on social media giving they kids artificial cereals, coffee, frozen pancakes, velveetta Mac and cheese, hot Cheetos, kraft, the list goes on. I’m sorry but are yall not capable of cooking from scratch or ?? On top of that, if you still using canola and vegetable oil in 2026 you gotta stop. Am I the only one that notices this ???

Sahm .. the dad role .

Hi!! I’m 2 months pp. and I really would like your opinion on this situation if you have a moment.
So I have always had a job before the baby, and my bd .. not really. But 2 weeks before he was born he scored a really good job and I was able to be a sahm. Which is what I wanted , and I’m unsure if it’s still what I want or if the situation just isn’t right.
At first he was a great help in the hospital as I had an emergency c section. I was in the hospital for about a week and for most of that time I was in bed .
But after that.. I’m lucky if he will watch the baby while I shower .and I mean that seriously.
I am the only one who changes diapers, only one who bathes , feeds or watched him in general. And of course he may be tired after work but it’s like he completely avoids any responsibility. Like he will take a hour coming home and stop by his friends house otw . He will sit down stairs for hours knowing I won’t go down there bc I’m uncomfy . So I have the baby then.
We have been out maybe 2-3 times sense I had him & he refused to push the stroller c change or anything. In fact we got to the mall and said he needed to split up and I had the baby.
I feel he only wants the baby when it’s for … attention? Like to post the baby on social media or if his family is here he will take him .

I just feel like on days he doesn’t have work the next morning he should be helping , and if he is up early before work while I’m still sleeping he should get the baby instead of scrolling on reels for 3 hours .

Honestly he has really ruined my new born phase with my son. Within the first week of us being home I had to full on switch to survival mode I would call it. He would complain if dinner wasn’t done or if the room was a mess , he would complain if the diaper caddy had no diapers which really makes no sense bc he didn’t even changed the diapers . It was just everything.
I’m just wondering if there is anything I could say to get some type of help out of him.
I tried reaching out to his mother but honestly his hole family is oblivious to his behaviour.

Nursery ideas

Guys I need help! This is going to be my daughter’s nursery and I want to make it cute. Help me find an aesthetic look or a good layout to place some furniture/cribs etc!!

Should I respect his wishes??

I’ve been a SAHM for 4 years now and my husband does a great job providing for our family and we never need for anything. With that i still had to sacrifice some wants like shopping when I want getting my hair and nails done regularly so when I can I try to supplement for my wants and savings by selling my craft items at vendor markets and recently I’ve started donating plasma. Which has been consistent income for me. $125 twice a week. Well my husband has expressed that he doesn’t like me donating plasma. He feels like it’s not worth it to put my body through those conditions for $125. He even went out to sell one of his guns today and gave me all the money and told me “I shouldn’t have to donate plasma no more”. That was so sweet but I disagree. I planned on continuing to donate plasma to save for my kids birthdays thats coming up, a trip we have planned and our anniversary. I don’t know what to do. I finally found something that pays something consistently and my husband is against it. What should I do?

Blw

Hi I am running out off ideas on what to make for Lil 14 month old for breakfast lunch and dinner if anyone have any resipes would be great to try my boy with them

Avoidant husband

I love my husband and he is a good man. We have some issues in our relationship however, as he has an avoidant attachment style (finds romance/intimacy/being emotional difficult). This comes from him having to be independent from a young age and having quite an abusive mother.
The issues in our relationship are mainly around a lack of sex and intimacy. I think the problem is that to feel turned on, I need to feel connected and wanted. My husband (being avoidant) will usually make jokes about being horny whereas I would want to have someone make me feel beautiful/sexy to get in the mood.
It sounds terrible but I've sometimes had dreams about exes that would make me feel this way, and the romance we had (eye contact, intensity, deep words). It makes me feel really guilty but I feel like i'm starved of that. My husband would like a lot more sex but I can't always force myself if I'm not feeling it.
We've spoken a bit about therapy but I know its often really expensive so we probably wouldn't be able to afford it. Do you have any suggestions please? I know that neither of us are wrong in what we want, just different but I'm scared about whether we can fix it or if we're doomed?