Brown discharge

Woke up in the middle of the night went to the bathroom and had the tiniest like the tiniest amount of brown discharge. I’m now worried 😭😭 but I’ve got my scan in literally 4 hours so fingers crossed everything’s okay 😭😭😭

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it was the tiniest literally tiniest amount and I haven’t had it since the middle of the night 😭

I had brown discharge between the weeks of 8 and 10 and I now have a healthy one year old 🙂 I was terrified at the time but all was good 🥰

Yep, I also had very little in week 9 believe it was. I read something that it was likely old blood clearing out when the placenta is attaching or something. ☺️ hope you and baby are both OK 💗

It thanks for all your reassurances!! I’ll update once I’ve had the scan! Pray that I’m measuring where I should be 😭 why is it all so scary 😅💖

Went for scan the experience wasn’t the best, baby looks good and everything looks clear but the experience was so sad I was in and out within 5 minutes I saw their heart beat which was crazy just really sad that I wasn’t able to take it in

Was it a private scan? Or your standard medical? Private scans can be super quick, but tbh it means things are looking good. My babygirl would not turn around on private scans and I stayed for ages because they wanted to get the pictures/gender but no success 😅 so being in and our quickly might be a good sign! The scans you'll get in the hospital are usually a lot longer, especially the anatomy scan ☺️
Glad everything is looking good and you got some peace of mind!

yes private, just really upset me I know the website said 5 minutes but I thought it meant like in the room not from when you walk into the building 😭😭

Brown discharge is totally normal. I had it with this pregnancy and my last one. Brown is just old stuff coming out!!

I had quite a lot of brown discharge from 6-10 weeks. I’m currently sat here snuggling my 10 week old baby. I was worried sick. Sending good thoughts your way ❤️

I’m 19 weeks and had brown discharge yesterday, I’m really scared I’m having a late miscarriage, anyone else had it later in pregnancy like me and all was ok? Xx

33w and had a small amount, doctor not worried saw yesterday baby boy had strong healthy heartbeat and very active 💙

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Baby abroad with dad

I need genuine advice whether I’m being crazy.

BD wants to take our baby who will be 12 months at the time abroad to meet his family in Georgia. He currently has her every Sunday, she’s not even been round there overnight yet. This is due to drug charges and other reasons I won’t get into.

We don’t have a court order it is informal arrangent. I have done everything myself for the past 9 months, from sleepless nights, breastfeeding to weaning. I am the primary caregiver.

I am so filled with anxiety at the thought of her being without me for a week let alone abroad?! He’s kicked off and said I’m being unreasonable and it’s not fair.

Is this normal or what? Asking me for reasons why I’m not ok with that?

So…….

So question
Do yall think 🤔 that texting other men/women online is consider cheating? Or do you think cheating is just physical and texting?

Am I the only one..?

Am I the only one that, sometimes, stop myself from saying something because if the other person has a different skin colour than me I fear they might take criticism as racism?

Am i a shitty mom

My son is about to be 9 months, and we currently live with his dad in a duplex. He doesnt work. If he does he works maybe 3 days and finds an excuse to quit. He says its not worth his time for what they pay. I work sunday through friday 5 am to 1:30 and i cant make ends meet. When i was on maternity leave he let bills rack up crazy and i had to use my whole retun to pay off the bills. And now ik the asshole because we obly jave about 200 dollars till i get paid again on the 18th. This is what he had to say when i complained that we wouldnt have had to use all of my return of he wouldve ketp a job that was perfect for our schedule and for our commute. He quit the job because they obly paid him 18/hr and he wasnt gonna do the job pf a machine for soemone who smokes a vape( he hates people who vape and his manager was doing so). Am i a shitty mom if i take my son away from his dad and run to harbor house? I just cant keep with financial abuse. I try everything to keep us above water and he just spits in my face about it.

Does anyone else ever feel like the “disposable” friend?

Like you show up, you care deeply, you try to be there for people… but the moment you can’t give 100%, it’s like your value drops. Like you’re only needed when you’re strong, available, and pouring into everyone else. I’m the kind of person who responds quickly and will continuously be there. I just feel like it’s not reciprocated…

I guess I’m just wondering… how do you know the difference between outgrowing a friendship and just going through a rough spot?

Would love to hear from anyone who’s felt this way 🖤

What am I doing wrong in these convos

It hurts because I can’t even have a normal convo with this guy. Everything turns into me being the bad guy and I’m literally doing everything alone. I just want to feel okay.