MIL is a narc

We went no contact with mil

Long story short she got caught putting dippers/nappies on my son who is going to school soon, she was confronted and instead of apologising she made her self into a victim told the full family lies, made me out to be a horrible person, said I was stopping her having a relationship with her son which was a lie she was the only person doing that if anything I had kept him closer to her than he ever was, she told lies about stuff making me out to be a bad mum (she is an ex drug addict so she makes lies up About other people to take away from what she did to her kids growing up)
She text my partner the most disgusting stuff and she basically neglected him his full life he’s now currently seeing councillor

Anyway she got in touch over the weekend through a group chat so everybody thinks she’s waving the white flag and being nice, nothing sincere about the text, no apology just basically saying my partner had to go to her to get this sorted

I’m totally against this I think if anything she should be coming to him as she is the one in the wrong
I also want her no were near the kids anytime soon she needs to go for therapy and sort her self out before she ends up fuckin my kids up like she did her own

in our community

Would you be annoyed?

Husband went out last night to a pub quiz (absolutely fine) however his lift home was with his friends new girlfriend who arrived totally drunk yet he still got in the car. He said it was awkward to refuse and get a taxi in front of others. He's 36 years old and I honestly thought he'd do better when he has a family at home. I'm so pissed off with him!

Partner working all the time

Does anyone else have a husband that literally just works all the time I am honestly so drained I am literally so exhausted 😩 😭 I am just on my own all the time I feel like it would probably be better if I was just a single parent sometimes it’s just so draining.
I am currently receiving postnatal support as since giving birth to my second I have been struggling I had a really traumatic time it’s Easter weekend and I am just sitting at home not having the energy to do anything he literally works Monday - Saturday all the time till 5am-7pm.
I was just wondering if anyone else has a similar situation does it get better I just don’t know if I can carry on with this relationship I hardly see him and when I do it’s pretty much bed time.
The washing is piled high the house is a mess and I don’t have the energy to do anything other than to look after my two children.

How much is enough??

My baby starts solids next week and Im trying to plan ahead. Im wondering how much is too much, especially in the early days. I see conflicting things about 1-2 tablespoons, but some babies are eating whole meals.

My plan for day 1 is pureed ground beef/breastmilk on a preloaded spoon with an avocado spear. We are having taco night! And the plan for the rest of the month is fairly similar, prioritizing allergen exposure and iron. So 1 puree (with 1-3 foods) and 1 finger food. Should I offer more? Picture of my beautiful baby boy so we dont get lost! He's getting so big 😭

3 year old resisting potty training

Hiya. Any advice for potty training my three year old please? We've got various pottys and toilets/seats for him to use. We've tried sticker charts, bribery, I've even got a bag of presents and said he can choose one each time he uses the potty, but he just refuses. When I suggest it or try to make him go without a nappy he just gets upset. I don't want to turn it into a battle but don't know what else to try. Do I just wait for him to be ready? Or give him a deadline for wearing nappies and stick to it? I was going to do the naked for three days thing but it's just upsetting him. Help! Thank you

Advise!!!

Ok so this Easter Dad is supposed to have 5 nights with our 2yo (court ordered) I’m fine with it. I think our child will struggle as they already struggle with a 2 night stay, but it’s ordered so it has to happen. There is no mention in the order that these are in addition to his regular contact it just says the child will stay with the father for 5 nights at Easter, there was a conversation in court about it only been 5 as it was to build up the nights gradually.

He is now trying to tag it to his weekend meaning he will have 6/7 nights. I don’t agree with this as like I say 2 nights are hard for the child’s it is so 5 is going to be hard and I don’t want to add to it.

My solicitor has said until he agrees I should not let him have her. I agree and I don’t want to give into him as he is very much all about control and abusing me not doing what is right for the child but I am also conscious that the child then misses out on a little holiday away with his family all for the sake of 1/2 nights. It seems so silly.

What’s your thoughts and advice??

2 weeks

I finally got my own apartment and left my husband 2 weeks ago today. Im honestly surprised how civil he's been. But I knew that he'd be with other women immediately, and I thought I was okay with that. The fact that he's still even with nothing to lose because I left, lying to me about being at another house is driving me crazy. I have his location and drove by there the other day so I know. Its. It healthy for me to concern myself with I know. But I cant handle the quickness and the lies. I know this is how he copes, he cant be alone and probably why hes being so nice after I left.