My baby starts solids next week and Im trying to plan ahead. Im wondering how much is too much, especially in the early days. I see conflicting things about 1-2 tablespoons, but some babies are eating whole meals.
My plan for day 1 is pureed ground beef/breastmilk on a preloaded spoon with an avocado spear. We are having taco night! And the plan for the rest of the month is fairly similar, prioritizing allergen exposure and iron. So 1 puree (with 1-3 foods) and 1 finger food. Should I offer more? Picture of my beautiful baby boy so we dont get lost! He's getting so big š
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Let your baby lead! Both of mine took only tastes for the first several weeks but like you said, some babies catch on right away. As long as they're eating meals by 1, most doctors won't care how fast they reached that point.

Iām prob doing the same, starting small one puree/food option for one week to watch for allergies. And starting off with beef/chicken. I really want to make the meat stock for baby. Heard a lot of good stuff. But my babe is only 4m, pedi approved solids but I want to wait until 6m. Dad already let him taste hummus and suck on a beef stick š š but we waiting till 6m for full on eating

I think thatās an amazing start! Also I love that youāre prioritizing allergen foods!
I was reading a book back when I was pregnant and newly pp. and it was talking about 3 meals a day so I was going all crazy on planning 3 meals in my head when baby approached 5m.
And when we had the doctors appointment to get the all clear on her being ready cause all the signs, she said 3 meals is way to many and to stick to one meal a day. So we did dinner as we all eat together and baby learns by the way you eat
Trying new foods, allergens, staying away from honey before 1, trying sips of water (I used a syringe when we were starting water, just a squirt here and there during meals)
I started off with veggies and bm purees but 2 weeks into that she no longer wanted purees when we were all eating. So we just took what we would make as a meal and cut food appropriately for her age
Seems like a great start, puree and finger food. Baby will eat as much or as little as they want.

Beef, bm, and avocado will give good fats. But you could also do sour cream/greek yogurt for dairy and fat/vitamins, tomato for acid? Lettuce either cooked and in the puree or just a centre rib cut piece? (Mostly for oral motor skills not necessarily for eating, but it does contain fiber)

Just come to say, heās bloody gorgeous š„¹š©µ

I was told only one new food per day. My daughter barely ate one baby spoonful her first time trying puree!

I started my baby on solids at 3m. She was ravenous to taste my food & met all the standards to begin. I donāt feed her solids daily & i do not puree. I just mash & leave small but easily consumed chunks. But she only eats fruit mainly

Youāll see when Bub is full or wants more just watch for cues. Reaching out or leaning in after second spoon - offer more. Leaning back or moving away,closing mouth- probably had enough. My babies all reacted differently to different foods. Like others have said most of their needs still from BM so have fun with it & let bub lead.

Beautiful

They will know how much they need and will gradually increase on their own. You donāt have to worry about giving too much. We started with pear purĆ©e. I think a fruit or vegetable purĆ©e is a good choice to start with.

Let him lead. He'll show you what he can handle. "Food before 1 is just for fun" is a good mantra to keep in mind. They're capable of eating, but they're only doing it initially to practice and get used to all the new sensations. They'll either get bored or they'll absolutely love food from the start. Either way, don't stress about it and they'll have a good healthy relationship with it
Been married for 5 years now with 4y/o son my husband have short fuse and would yell and curse at a wall if heās working with something and it doesnāt go his way. He yells at me or things i do in the house like decorating he calls it ā this is stupid, this is dumb ideaā it really hurts my feelings and I just donāt want to keep tolerating it and he apologizes and do it all over again. I donāt want to get used to it now my son is developing his temper and attitude because my son sees it all the time. With stomping of the feet, punch furniture. Idk what to do. Also first trimester i had to go through psych therapy and they almost put me on medication because my husband gives me mental breakdown.
He never compliments me, heās always on his phone, heās hard working and passionate about work, work in the house, take care of our son but not so great with me.
He doesnāt even compliment me, most men or women out there tell me i look so beautiful as a pregnant woman. On our anniversary i spent my time shopping and bought him shirt that matches me so we look nice on our 5th anniversary, didnāt even say anything nice to me. 37 weeks pregnant and i still try to look good for him. He doesnāt even touch me anymore. I feel so disconnected. Heās constantly on his phone and when I address this matter he gets defensive that heās learning something to fix the house. Or he hides in the bathroom for an hour scrolling on his phone didnāt even poop.
One time i asked if he can massage my leg because 3rd trimester sucks he just told me to take tylenol. Iām so unhappy and donāt know what to do! He always criticized me

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Our neighbourās turned 13 and Iām looking to get her a present, itās been like 11 years since I was 13 so i have no clue what teens like nowadaysšš anyone got girls around the same age that can guide me towards something sheād like. I was thinking skincare or something but Iām sure her family already got her that, something adhd friendly would be nice as well which is why i was thinking them like craft kits which i enjoyed around that age but i think theyāre advertised for younger kids so idk.
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Hi girlsš©·
What snacks are you giving your little ones? Iām looking for healthy convenient ideas⦠Iām always worried raw fruit and veg is a bit of a shocking hazard still so wondering what others are giving? Iād really rather not have to cook for a quick snack
Also if youāre giving snacks what time of day are you offering these? X
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