My own mother is getting on my nerves!!

Before people come for me saying it’s not a big deal and that if it was their mum they won’t mind…. This is very different, growing up my mum always made every achievement and success that I got about her. She also told people that my daughter is will calling her mum too.

I have now told her countless times to stop calling my daughter ‘her baby’ and she still does it and acts like I didn’t say anything to her.
I’m fed up of it because I’m always going out my way to ft her so she can have a bond with her granddaughter but yet she’s putting me in a position where I feel like if she doesn’t respect my boundaries, am gonna have to avoid calling her.

Your baby calling someone else mum might not be a big deal with some people but when you always dreamed of becoming a mum and you always thought you would never get a chance to be a mum… it’s a very big deal.

I’m tired of having to repeat myself and it’s starting to become mentally exhausting. I get nervous everytime she says stuff like ‘come to mummy’ talking about herself to my daughter because my daughter has started to pick up on words and I don’t want her to end up calling my own mother… MUM! She’s not her mum, I am.

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