Has anyone else's 10/11 month old still not got a single tooth?

My girl is still as gummy as she was when born😭 don't get me wrong, I'll miss her gummy smiles but I'm seeing so many her age have about 4 teeth now 🤣

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My son's got 6 now but my friend's baby didn't get a tooth until she was over 12 months so don't worry about it x

My little one still hasn’t. He’s been teething since 8 weeks old 🙄.

Same, my little boy still hasn t

@Kaz (Karen) same here 😭 she's had that white strain to her gum and now we can see multiple teeth but no sign of cutting though even though she's been teething, and still is, for so long😭

@Roxana late bloomers I guess, I love the gummy smile but I do worry when she'll get a tooth 😅

@Ola it's just how long she's been teething for now and the fact we can see multiple of them straining against her gum but no sign of cutting through 😭🤣 I'm glad there are others whos LO are the same though, it's nice to know we aren't the only ones x

Same here, been teething forever but still no teeth x

10 Months nearly 11 not a single sign of a tooth 😂 starting to think she'll be gummy till her adult teeth come in x

We have no teeth but have been teething forever!! 😂

My 11month old has 8 teeth ana more are coming through

My LB is nearly 11 months old and still no teeth, all the teething symptoms though! I did check with my HV and she said it’s nothing to worry about x

My 10 month old had no teeth up until a week and a half ago and now has all four front ones 😳 cherish that gummy smile!!

My bg at the end of 9 months had no teeth but in that month 4 came through at once! Now she's just turned 11 m at 2 more are starting to come. But we know a 1yr old that has none so 🤷🏻‍♀️

My baby's first tooth only started coming through a week or so ago and still isn't fully out. No more teeth yet and she's nearly 11 months.

@Josie @Charlie @vicky honestly feels like she's going to be gummy forever 🤣 I'm really glad I'm not the only one who's child doesn't want teeth😭

@Alicia whoaaa! That's mental! At least so many of them are out the way so you won't have a teething baby soon anymore😭

mine said the same, but I guess I can't help it when other mums with babies similar age point it out😮‍💨😅

@Megan that's fair...I am somewhat hoping she'll have at least 1 by 12 months...she's been teething since month two and they've been there and dropped since then, my HV is still surprised they'd not cut through (she's the one that spotted them, has 4 kids herself) but LGs teething has been terrible lately 😭

@Taylor I'm going to fully 100% miss her gummy smile, not going to lie, but I think my worry is that she's just going to never get teeth 🤣😭 having to get dentures at 3 ahaha

mine was the same they were there but just had comer through, she'll probably get a few 1 after eachother

I’m exactly the same, it’s so hard not to compare isn’t it 😓 x

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I've finally done it

I have finally done it. I have finally become the trope, the stereotype.

I have become bitter, resentful, and very overwhelmed and overloaded. I am very unhappy and hit burnout. And I snapped at my husband last night. I work full-time, and work has been very busy so im working late a lot. Im also in grad school. I also have a toddler that has become VERY clingy with me. My husband works shorter days but commutes, so he usually gets home after me by an hour or more. When he gets home, he usually heads to the restroom for at least 30 mins when he gets home. And now my toddler doesnt want anything to do with him. So im doing all the toddler duties until bed. I dont get 5 mins to myself. Not for almost 2 years. I finally hit my wall. I have also, somehow, become my MILs medical ride service and she somehow has an appt every week, it seems?! Shes not sick!! My husband was complaining that he needs to change routine to fit in a workout sometimes, and I lost it. I have been BEGGING for 5 mins to myself for months. I have been telling him how im not good, im going to burn out for months. And between his attitude and him complaining (which really got me b/c he blames me for not being able to work out?! Saying I need help when he gets home so he just cant workout now) I just lost it completely. I told him how unfair my life has become and I have the entire mental and emotional load and it is just not fair. He got mad at me and said "hes trying" when hes literally not trying at all. What do I do?? No one is taking the load from me! And im done and dont know what to do now.
I do not like this version of me.

Is this clever or cruel?

My husband and i were talking and with social media and the internet in general being a terrifying dumpster fire, we are trying to figure out the best way to keep our son safe while still teaching him how to safely be online and moderation.

We landed on the idea of giving him the 90's kid treatment. A computer in the living room for us to keep an eye on what hes doing online, and once we feel hes mature enough to hang with friends without adult supervision he gets a flip phone. When we feel he is responsible enough and he earns and saves up the money for the physical phone, case, and screen cover, then we will be happy to take him to get a smart phone.

I thought this was air tight, but now my brother says its cruel to give a kid a flip phone, and besides he can just use his friends phones at school.

My husband and i remember a time before the internet, and we remember having complete access to something no one understood yet. We saw unspeakable things and are always battling with the urge to put the phone and social media down. I dont want that for my son, especially with his brain so vulnerable still.

AITA?

This isn't a major issue, just wondering if I'm being a bit of an asshole.

• I do shift work, 5 out of 7 days, full-time.
• My partner works from home (mostly, sometimes he goes into the office) M-F, full-time.

Anyway, whenever I have a day off during the week he gets in his feelings when I make myself food (breakfast and lunch) but not him. His reason is he's working, I'm not - Which is fair but I've asked him how many times on a weekend has he gotten up, on his day off and made me breakfast and a lunch to take with me to work? You guessed it, 0.

So basically, just because I'm at home I don't think the responsibility to feed him should automatically fall on me when he manages to feed himself just fine while I'm at work.

If your partners parent passes away

And you and that parent didn't get along are you still go to the funeral?

Not my situation!

Big vent!

Hi mums.
I'm a first time mum in my 40s to twin boys.They are almost 5 months old and the biggest miracle in my life!
I am struggling!!!
I'm pretty sure I have ppa as my pregnancy was a very high risk and all I remember was crying from anxiety of all the ifs!Thankfully even born at 35 weeks and skinny,didn't need iu time.
My husband is not helping much because he's always too busy with work.He will "look" after them usually between 8pm-12am so I can have a chance to sleep.
He expects me to just sleep when I touch the pillow,even though I hear tje babies crying and him don't really bother because most of the times he'll be on his laptop working.
When I tell him I can't relax to fall asleep because I feel you r neglecting the babies,he says I'm the problem becauae I'm always there with them and don't give them alone time!!
I am angry!!I am furious!!
I can't keep.up.with housework becauae someone alwaya neess me and most of the times they nap I either cook and clean tje kitchen,do laundry or try and take a quick nap.
He doesn't help.around the house,becauae..guess what?always super busy.
I asked him nicely we could clean the house together every Saturday morning so it's easier and quicker for both of us and he said no,because he has a lot of work but probably wants to sleep until 12 or 2.
2 days ago a button of his coat ripped and I told him I'll sew it these days.
Earlier this morning while running late for his work,as always,he weara the coat and told him didn't get the chance to fix the button and sarcastically said..of.course u didn't!!!
I spent all night awake because one of the babies had congested nose and we've been trying to reduce one fees at night.
I wanted to punch him!!He left and I started crying...I cry so much,even at 5 months pp...
I can't go on like this anymoreeeee...
The crying in my ears is constant..my head is always numb..I've gained so much weight and can't find the strength to get back on track..
Even if I try to.find a therapist to just talk,is it gonna help?I really don't know😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Partner no longer wants baby #2

Before our son was born we originally both wanted minimum 2 kids but we were hoping for 3-4. My partner found the birth traumatic to watch and also struggled a lot with the newborn/baby stage. He no longer wants to have any more children and it’s completely breaking my heart. I need another baby. We’ve spoken about it a lot and the options. He said he wasn’t COMPLETELY closed off to it so I asked him to try and work through his feelings and reconsider his decision. He eventually said he definitely doesn’t want another. I know that I will always want one and my feelings will never change. Do we have to break up or does anyone know anything else I can do to help change his mind? Has anyone else’s partner said this and then changed their mind? I don’t want to break up because I adore him and our life together and I’d hate to split up our family for “selfish” reasons and make my son miss out on having both of us together but I just don’t know what to do