Did your love life change after the baby ?

We just had our first date night in months and we said we want to try to do it once a month because we kinda fell off

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Yeah, every single thing changes after baby lol They wreck everythinggg Love life, sleep life, social life… you’ll find your groove again.
It’s good that you both committed to a once a month date night. 💜 Sounds like a wonderful plan.

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Yes it takes a lot more effort once children are involved but relationships in general take effort so it's okay (:

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The short answer is yes, but I now have a 4 year old and I can tell you that the spark and love life etc all come back around 2 years later, it’s not gone for good if you don’t want it to be! You have to be committed to getting it back though. We fell more in love

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Absolutely 🥹

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absolutely yes . now once a week sometimes once every two weeks . and fast as we can. most of the times his the only one having pleasure

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that’s good to know

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🤣😩 I wasn’t talking about sex but yess our sex life had to get some work as well 🤣🤣

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hahahah i miss understood

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