Has anyone introduced a dummy at 3 weeks old?

My LO will be 3 weeks old tomorrow and I was wanting to introduce a dummy just to help sooth him when out and about. I wasn’t really planning on using at bed time yet. Will this be an issue? I’ve now started taking my first born to nursery and will be a lot easier to get her ready in the morning once I know baby has been fed. If anyone else introduced a dummy at 3 weeks did you have any issues with breastfeeding?

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Huh? What’s a dummy

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a pacifier sorry haha, dummy in UK 😅

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Ah okay haha, anything like that before three months can create nipple confusion and it also can affect your supply if you give it to your lo too much.

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I've read that ad long as baby has well established breastfeeding and is gaining good weight a dummy is fine....just keep an eye on the feeding ques.

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Do it! If you wait too long your baby might not take it ever. I introduced one on day 2 with my second and it was a life saver. He was EBF and gained weight no problem. Nipple confusion is mostly a myth!

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We introduced it practically right when my baby girl was born. She seems to know the difference between the two and will spit the paci out if she’s fussing because she’s hungry and will take it for the most part any other time. I was worried about nipple confusion at first but she seems to know my body scent and touch compared to a silicone pacifier.

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