Baby won’t sleep

My premie won’t sleep for very long without being held. If we put him down in his bassinet he wakes up…. Which means no one sleeps but him! We have sound machines and swaddles but still struggling. Also, I’ve noticed baby wakes up much sooner if I am next to him but sleeps longer when dad is around. Thoughts?

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Facing the same issue , looking for suggestions on how to make baby sleep without being held, she doesn’t like the bassinet either and wakes up (from deep sleep) as soon as we put her down. Although she sleeps very well in the arms , or close to the chest

I’m facing the same issue as well. 😢

How old is he? I know our lo went through something similar at 6 weeks. I think it’s pretty common at that time frame. It got better in week 7/8

I am going through the same thing i had my son really early though

how early was your LO born ?

My pediatrician told us to let him cry for 5 minutes before picking him up. Once he is calm, put him back in the bassinet. Repeat, repeat and repeat for two nights. Doc also said to put him down when he’s dozing off and not during a Deep sleep?? Wish me luck!!!🍀

i just saw this so sorry my sons due date is january 11 actually today!! but i had him at 33 weeks November 30

That’s funny. My due date was January 1st and I had him at 33 weeks and one day. Also in November!!

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