IDK what to do

Went for my 2 month ultrasound and found out the baby isn’t growing properly and the technician didn’t let me hear a heartbeat or show me the lines that indicate a heart beat. She just quietly said to wait for my doctor to call. I’m not sure what’s going on but I’m so nervous and scared. I don’t know what I expect to get from writing this here but I just feel so defeated right now.

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I know it must be scary right now. But just remember things do happen for the best. With a lot going on in my life, the only way I found peace is by surrendering to Allaha's will. I know nothing I say might help, but will keep u in my dua n hope everything is good for u.

Jazakallah keep us in your duas 🩷

I hope and pray everything is ok for you. Isn't it 2 months scan too early? I am not sure if you are from UK.. In UK my first scan was around 12 weeks.. Usually it's after 12 weeks.. So wouldn't it be too early to suspect anything growing, heartbeat etc? I had similar situation but that was towards end like 33 weeks in pregnancy. It turned out everything was ok.. Plus the consultant made me have c section Cuz of this which I didn't wanted but couldn't avoided. Baby was absolutely fine n he was born 10 days before

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