Weaning

What age did you start to wean your baby? And if it was before 6 months, did you cook fresh food or give them the supermarket food for 6 month+?

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I weaned at 6 months and did BLW, mainly finger foods and supported with purée or abut stodgier foods to go alongside. I tried to give maybe banana/toast/scrambled egg for him to hold and try to eat and then spoon feed some porridge. So he had multiple textures x

Puree for 4 months. plus, mix the formula/ breast milk in with the baby food to wean them into a more runny consistency first :)

did you just get the purée sachets / tubs from the supermarket? X

Yes, start with fruit and vegetables even with the veg still mix with he milk :) xx

6 months, started with steamed vegetables

4 months only got porridge out the shop but made the food from scratch steam some veg and blend it up her with her baby milk x

6 months, I wouldn’t recommend doing earlier unless you really need to or are advised to. If so, Ella’s kitchen do some 4+ months first tastes pouches, it’s good to do single flavours at a time to begin with and veg first x

We started at 5 1/2 months
We were told it can be a tiny bit before or after 6 months depending on readiness
At the beginning, it was only for tasting and exploring
His first tastes were broccoli, an omelette strip and a suck on a strawberry lol

I also highly recommend the kiddylicious wafers. They melt into a mush in the mouth and encourage self feeding 🙂 x

I’m currently weaning my six month old. We’ve started with purées that I made myself. It’s a lot cheaper to buy veggies and blend them yourself, pouches are great if you don’t have the time but a little pricey.
We started off with broccoli puréed with some of my breastmilk and now we’re a couple weeks in and he’s getting the hand of eating so we’re going to start introducing finger foods.

We gave her some steamed veg to play with at around 5.5 months and proper solids from 6 months. She has a mix of BLW and purées.

I tend to cook the purées myself, but if we go out, I find it easier to use store bought.

I started weaning about 7 and a half months as he wasn’t that fussed. What mummy makes cook book is really good as can make meals for the whole family which are suitable for 6 months plus

My son started at 5 1/2 months as he was predicted to have allergies. He never took purée or store made baby food so he has eaten off my plate or our food as it is from day 1. He is currently not eating and on a hunger strike because of teething but home cooked organic for him when he does eat.

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