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Potty advice

My 3 year old is starting school in fall and he uses potty at home but at times struggles putting pants back on. In public we mostly out on a diaper since not all places have bathroom but if they do we take him to the bathroom and see if he needs to use it but I do how it’s going to be when he starts school. I’m not sure how to teach him that in school he needs to ask to use it and what to do if in case he needs assistance with like putting clothes back on

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How much is enough??

My baby starts solids next week and Im trying to plan ahead. Im wondering how much is too much, especially in the early days. I see conflicting things about 1-2 tablespoons, but some babies are eating whole meals.

My plan for day 1 is pureed ground beef/breastmilk on a preloaded spoon with an avocado spear. We are having taco night! And the plan for the rest of the month is fairly similar, prioritizing allergen exposure and iron. So 1 puree (with 1-3 foods) and 1 finger food. Should I offer more? Picture of my beautiful baby boy so we dont get lost! He's getting so big 😭

Would you be annoyed?

Husband went out last night to a pub quiz (absolutely fine) however his lift home was with his friends new girlfriend who arrived totally drunk yet he still got in the car. He said it was awkward to refuse and get a taxi in front of others. He's 36 years old and I honestly thought he'd do better when he has a family at home. I'm so pissed off with him!

Partner working all the time

Does anyone else have a husband that literally just works all the time I am honestly so drained I am literally so exhausted 😩 😭 I am just on my own all the time I feel like it would probably be better if I was just a single parent sometimes it’s just so draining.
I am currently receiving postnatal support as since giving birth to my second I have been struggling I had a really traumatic time it’s Easter weekend and I am just sitting at home not having the energy to do anything he literally works Monday - Saturday all the time till 5am-7pm.
I was just wondering if anyone else has a similar situation does it get better I just don’t know if I can carry on with this relationship I hardly see him and when I do it’s pretty much bed time.
The washing is piled high the house is a mess and I don’t have the energy to do anything other than to look after my two children.

Do you let your toddlers/little kids play in puddles? Assuming they have boots on.

My kids love playing in puddles. A friend told me she never lets her kid because they could get dysentery if they accidentally get some in their mouths.

Potty training day 1

Today was day 1 of potty training our 21 month old via the "Oh Crap" method. We also have a 3 month old.

All I can say as the day comes to an end is that was absolute carnage.

She stayed naked all day, fine. We had bed pads and towels everywhere, and tried to keep as calm and positive as possible. However, we had soo many accidents, despite looking out for signs, she just goes. She did go once or twice on the potty, but we had to take her there ourselves and sometimes keep her there as she peed because she tried to run off. She becomes scared when she needs to go, and cries when we take her to the potty, despite all the encouragement and positive reward. She's obviously holding it in too, and is crying from discomfort.

What's everyone else's day 1 experience? Any tips or advice for tomorrow?

2 weeks

I finally got my own apartment and left my husband 2 weeks ago today. Im honestly surprised how civil he's been. But I knew that he'd be with other women immediately, and I thought I was okay with that. The fact that he's still even with nothing to lose because I left, lying to me about being at another house is driving me crazy. I have his location and drove by there the other day so I know. Its. It healthy for me to concern myself with I know. But I cant handle the quickness and the lies. I know this is how he copes, he cant be alone and probably why hes being so nice after I left.