Right now my little boy is happy just looking around while he lies in his Sleepyhead and I fold laundry - but why do I feel guilty? š„¹ Heās not crying but I just feel like he must be bored?! Heās 5 weeks. I know this might sound ridiculous to some of you - but can someone reassure me itās ok?
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I have always put my baby to bed at night awake. Heās in a next to me so iām only a touch away. But he lies there awake for a while just looking around. Sometimes I do feel bad for him so Iāve recently just bought a projector for the ceiling and he seems to like watching that as he drifts off to sleep. But I can assure you theyāre fine. Unless theyāre upset or crying they are fine. And in my mind I only do it so heās used to be alone for sleep so itās hopefully abit easier transferring to his own room! š«¶š»

I feel exactly the same! I feel like when my baby is awake I need to be with them and be doing things, talking to her, singing, tummy time etc. I prefer to do things with sheās asleep. My baby very rarely lays by herself awake and is content, sheās either crying for food or unsettled and needs settling to sleep. I do understand how you feel as I feel exactly the same! The guilt that Iām not interacting with her xx

As someone with an extremely fussy baby, he will let you know if he is bored. Heās probably content looking at lights etc.
If heās happy, go with it! And enjoy! From a very envious mum š
Thanks everyone š©·

I feel the exact same I was doing washing and stuff the other day and felt so guilty like Iām being a shit mum not giving her all
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