My HB is gaming with women/ Question for gamers.

If you have no other reason to believe that he would do anything or take things further then I wouldn’t stress. I’m a gamer myself and use discord often. However if you’ve got other valid concerns then bring it up to your hubby. And if the dating advice or comments make you uncomfortable you mention it and set some boundaries around it.

Unfortunately even in my ex telling another girl gamer (that he never met prior) that he was with someone/kids etc he lied to my face and went out with one of these girls, to dinner/drinks - dunno what happened exactly and doubt he’d ever tell me the truth. But he’s a POS and lost my trust before this incident.

I wouldn’t worry bout it. I game with my boyfriend and his friends. We play online as well and there’s all types of ppl in different lobbies. The random dumb comments just come with it & is all out fun & harmless. We talk crazy to ppl almost everyday and just crack up😆especially when we get an opposite team or someone who will join in on it lmao

Thanks! On discord you can also meet people that live nearby?
I have no idea how it works.

Nah I mean there’s servers and groups similar to here you can chat on etc. he just managed to find someone on his game that lived close by in our state

I don’t think it’s a concern him playing with women, but I do think regardless if he talks about you/baby he shouldn’t be making sexual innuendo comments. Just because he’s open about being married doesn’t mean it’s okay… it’s not like married men don’t cheat right?

If you have no other concerns outside of this I would give him benefit of the doubt and just say to him you don’t feel comfortable with him making those types of flirty jokes to other women and if he carries on then… get on a game yourself with men and start making flirty jokes to them out loud and I’m sure he will have something to say 😂
No in all seriousness I wouldn’t be too pleased.. look what Sharnee said..I’m sure that started out as ‘harmless’ jokes before he went and met one of them when he had the chance.. and as for discord it depends what their conversations are about

Honestly I wouldn't be worried. I have a few very close gaming friends and we fuck around and make jokes all the time. That being said we also all exchange advice and talk about our significant others and our kids constantly. in one of my long standing groups he sent us a thread of pictures from his engagement and was so psyched that he finally proposed to his woman and all of us were so excited for him. That being said me and the 2 other girls in our gc have absolutely been questioned by our guy friends significant others in the past purely based off of the way they make some jokes with us and it can be some degree of concerning at times especially if there's no real base for them ever speaking to us. If you're uncomfortable maybe ask if you can play with them? I've actually gotten pretty close to my gamer friends significant others over the years and I love it!

My husband don’t really talk with the opposite gender when he’s gaming. If he’s in a game with randoms and there’s a woman, he doesn’t interact. He doesn’t quite interact with the female either if she’s one of his homies friends and they’re all in a group chat together.

I also play video games and I’ll play with randoms but never talk with them. I dislike talking, I just play for fun. I mainly speak when playing if it’s friends I know, family or with my husband.

Same goes for discord. I, personally don’t use discord to talk to randoms. I use discord to talk to my siblings when playing as they have PC/computer and I’m on console.

For my husband discord, he finds servers for whatever games he’s playing to have a buddy to play with. He also have siblings and friends that they’re in a group chat together.

Discord, you can talk, video chat and join servers but you don’t personally have to join servers and stuff. They can be all around the world, ect,.

My other half has discord and games online. I'm either in the room or pottering and he says I'm there. He talks about me. He makes me presence in his life very well known and the same with our son. It's just the bullshit chat. Sometimes the women flirt harmlessly but others do try to rock the boat. If he talks about you and baby he is letting them know he has his life away from gaming.

My husband has never disrespected me so far and I do hear him talking about me all the time but I do get a little jealous with the small comments I guess. Does it make you jealous sometimes, him talking to other women? Or how do you deal with it?

Honestly, I asked him to add me to the group conversation so I could hear it.
Plus, I can join in. 😌 he knows I'm insecure on those days, and he supports me, or he feels the guys I'm in the room, and then they get him to pass around his headphones.

All I do if there is a new woman is kiss him over the headset 😆 🤣

My mans is a gamer, but has no gamer girl friends. He doesn’t feel the need to interact with women because gaming has all types of male friends, so what’s the need for a female one? Plus I’m a gamer and plays almost every single game he does. I was a gamer before I even knew him and I’ve had female friends that were cool, and I’ve also had the sneaky female friends. So it really just depends on your husband and how he looks at your guy’s relationship. Having a female friend regardless for a man can only go one of 2 ways and it truly depends on him on which way it goes. So it’s up to you if you’re ok with him having female friends. And if you are but you don’t really like the comments then talk to him about it, set boundaries as those are always good.