Me and babies dad broke up a while ago because he is emotionally abusive, unloyal and borderline abusive. We still live together and I'm the one who has to move out otherwise we will be living together for years. I'm so upset and grieving over the family I wanted and he's been speaking to people and sexting all that so disrespectfully which he can't understand why I am upset. I cried and told him how it made me feel when we are so emotionally and physically tied together right now and that I wanted to be a family. I feel like such a mug because I broke down in tears and he just didn't give a shit at all
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Girl why am I going through the same thing! Except me and bd don’t live together.

I’m just like ugh should I leave him foreal?? We’re on a break right now but I want to be a family too

Please move out. I was in exactly the same situation a year ago and have just found it was a lot worse than I thought. I wish I had left sooner.

But I know it is so hard, I didn’t listen when people said the same to me

As you said you are grieving the idea of a family, not him. He cannot give you that and will continue to hurt you

just messaged xx