You know the ones that are just happy with the fine ass woman they have and have eyes for no other in a lustful way. Am I being delulu do these men exist?
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Get yourself a Muslim man

Even the ones who fiercely pretend they don’t do things like this & have you absolutely convinced their loyal will do you dirty

Not every man is like this though, men aren’t all just dirty dogs that can’t keep their trousers up lol.

personally I don’t think it’s a man thing I think it’s a people thing & just goin off experience alone people are very deceitful

of course not, women can be just as bad as men but not everyone is deceitful. It’s awful you’ve had terrible past experiences but it’d be unfair to tar everyone with the same brush
Ugh!!! It’s horrible. My husband does this and I just can’t stand it. But there is nothing I can do about it. He told me he was off socials but I guess he just took a break and is back on now doing the same things. Just makes me see him different.. otherwise hes been loyal and honest as far as I know but I guess we just can’t trust anyone but God!

Mine looks at cars 😅 car fixing forums, car related videos, autotrader, just cars 🫠
I’m sick of cars 🤣 got excited when he put on a video about foraging in the uk

He needs to get some other hobbies! The algorithm will feed men thirst traps but my husband’s feed is mostly full of bikes, sports and parenting posts because those are the things he is interested in.

Mine is currently down a YouTube rabbit hole of fruit and veg farming I'd prefer thirst traps tbh 🤣

🤣🤣 that’s so funny. Mine is currently fixated on stardew valley 🤣

why are they like this 😆

mine is currently fixated on watching videos about mantis shrimp…..and then he wants to tell me all about it. I love him and he’s the greatest, so I listen. But y’all. MANTIS SHRIMP. 😩

you may end up with some fresh fruit and veg at least 🤣 I just get him asking to lower my car

don't kill me 🤣I had this last night but with avocado farming
trust me you don’t want your man staring at thirst traps all day! give me farming anyway
now I’m googling mantis shrimp 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Mine watches funny videos involving cats, dogs or usually is watching gaming content

OH NO HES STARTED AN ARMYYYYY 😩😂
I showed him your comment and I just want you to know, he is inordinately pleased that he got someone to look up mantis shrimp lol

😅😅 They are no different.

they do exist! my partners social media is full of stupid memes and video game stuff lol

Get a fisherman they spend most of their time staring at fish and boats

I honestly don’t think my husband has ever looked up a thirst trap since I’ve known him. He looks at dumb memes and video game stuff lol
Yeap I learnt today apparently they pack a mega punch 🤣🤣 u learn something new! 🤣🤣
do they smell of fish though?!

I think men who do this have way too much time on their hands, they need hobbies and watching thirst trap videos is not a hobby. My husband looks at fishing stuff whenever he is online which is very rare bt his “free” time is spent him exploring his hobbies. And when he is spending “too” much time in his hobbies I just remind him and he is able to cut if off, bt he likes to keep himself busy with a health outlet & normal hobbies. I think what’s disturbing abt men who are looking at thirst traps is the lack of disrespect or dishonesty that comes with it. If u tell him to stop, then he should stop. Ppl who go behind ur back to do something they know is hurting u or they continue to do something even tho u asked them to stop; well that person doesn’t respect u. So why would u be with some1 who constantly is disrespecting u, themselves and ur relationship? Bt long story short YES, there are men out there that are not looking at thirst traps or staring at asses.

I’m with muslim men aren’t any different. As a matter of fact some Muslim men might just want a 2nd or 3rd wife etc. so idk if that’s the safe option here lol

totally agree! My man fishes. All he ever talks abt is fishing, all he ever thinks abt is fishing, his whole world revolves around fishing. We have boat and he has a kayak. I used to think something was wrong with him bt glad to know fisherman are all the same out here. All they do is think of fish

they are ALWAYS on the lookout for more 😅😅😅.
Infact some of them ,if they x with non-Muslim it’s not veery sinful in their head .
They do their dirty the entire time with non-religious women .
Whether they are married or not lmao ,I know them a little too well.

💯 he sends me so many boat ads lol he would sell our house and live on a darn boat lol

I mean maybe after a fishing trip but they better shower lol