Fussy eating just a phase?

Anyone else’s nearly 2 year old being fussy with food, don’t really know how to solve the issue but if he’s not eating it and sayings he’s finished we’ve just been not giving him anything else

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In exactly the same position. He literally won’t eat anything. He asks for things, has a couple of mouthfuls then says all done. Driving me mad!

my son never use to be like this it’s stressing me out like worried it’s going to go on forever , what have you been doing?

Neither did my first! He always ate (although fussy) this one is terrible. Just getting him down, not giving him anything else, unless before bed when I give him plain yoghurt high in protein and banana - but he doesn’t associate it with dinner x

Mine is the same! This phase lasted 3 months, picking at meals, refusing meals altogether. He’s only just started to eat properly again now. We were told by the HV to offer him all foods and just let him eat what he wants (even if it wasn’t the healthiest). As long as he was eating something and not losing weight it was okay x

My lb turned fussy about 12mths and has been since! Barely lets us feed him, refuses pretty much everything now. Except sweet junk 🙈🙈 I try my best to not give in to the sweet stuff but some days it's the only thing he will eat so give in to a pan au choc or some coco pops 🙈🙈 also doesn't help when I try to be strict and the teenagers give him!!
Don't know why he went and is so fussy, it's extremely frustrating. Some days it feels like he practically starves.
I've just found sone recipes for things like avocado chocolate mousse and chocolate donuts with veg in them which I'm gonna try, as at least it's some nutrients into him!

has the fussy eating affected his weight? My little girls has been a fussy eater since 10 months old and still continuing at 19 months and this affects her weight. Little food she eats she eats it only with me, but I give birth to second baby in September via c-section and don’t really now what is going to be with her

Tbh I don't get him weighted. It he's very tall and slightly chunky. We call him a unit haha. So I'm doubtful it effects his weigh

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I've finally done it

I have finally done it. I have finally become the trope, the stereotype.

I have become bitter, resentful, and very overwhelmed and overloaded. I am very unhappy and hit burnout. And I snapped at my husband last night. I work full-time, and work has been very busy so im working late a lot. Im also in grad school. I also have a toddler that has become VERY clingy with me. My husband works shorter days but commutes, so he usually gets home after me by an hour or more. When he gets home, he usually heads to the restroom for at least 30 mins when he gets home. And now my toddler doesnt want anything to do with him. So im doing all the toddler duties until bed. I dont get 5 mins to myself. Not for almost 2 years. I finally hit my wall. I have also, somehow, become my MILs medical ride service and she somehow has an appt every week, it seems?! Shes not sick!! My husband was complaining that he needs to change routine to fit in a workout sometimes, and I lost it. I have been BEGGING for 5 mins to myself for months. I have been telling him how im not good, im going to burn out for months. And between his attitude and him complaining (which really got me b/c he blames me for not being able to work out?! Saying I need help when he gets home so he just cant workout now) I just lost it completely. I told him how unfair my life has become and I have the entire mental and emotional load and it is just not fair. He got mad at me and said "hes trying" when hes literally not trying at all. What do I do?? No one is taking the load from me! And im done and dont know what to do now.
I do not like this version of me.

Is this clever or cruel?

My husband and i were talking and with social media and the internet in general being a terrifying dumpster fire, we are trying to figure out the best way to keep our son safe while still teaching him how to safely be online and moderation.

We landed on the idea of giving him the 90's kid treatment. A computer in the living room for us to keep an eye on what hes doing online, and once we feel hes mature enough to hang with friends without adult supervision he gets a flip phone. When we feel he is responsible enough and he earns and saves up the money for the physical phone, case, and screen cover, then we will be happy to take him to get a smart phone.

I thought this was air tight, but now my brother says its cruel to give a kid a flip phone, and besides he can just use his friends phones at school.

My husband and i remember a time before the internet, and we remember having complete access to something no one understood yet. We saw unspeakable things and are always battling with the urge to put the phone and social media down. I dont want that for my son, especially with his brain so vulnerable still.

If your partners parent passes away

And you and that parent didn't get along are you still go to the funeral?

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Has anyone else been told it won’t start until May?

The government site states it should start from April 1st, and so I intentionally set my nursery start and return to work as the start of April for that reason, knowing that I wouldn’t be able to afford the nursery on my sole income without the funding

Jealous of my husband

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