So my babydaddy is down bad and his energy is off and he doesn't want his "down" energy to rub off on me or anyone.. lol and when he's going through stuff he distance himself till he get himself together. He's having money problems etc

Literally going thru the same thing.. bro is financially messed up, mentally messed up, and he only chose originally to see my son 2 days out of the month bc of his jobs schedule, then he lost said job, it’ll be 2 months this weekend, that I haven’t heard a single thing from him other than he needs to cancel bc he doesn’t have the money. What’s crazy is I’m being called a bitter bm, yet I’ve asked him if I sent him with everything he’d need for his stay, as well as gas money, he ended up using his mental as an excuse(that was after a month of him not seeing him).

My thing, what if it was happening to US(the moms), we did it all thru postpartum.. we still do it(if you’re working), and have to leave work bc your kid needs to be picked up/call out of work bc of appointments/etc.. so they very much think they don’t need to be a father just bc they don’t got money. Personally idk how much money you’d need for his little one day a week pickup, but whatever. I keep everything documented

So if he tries to take me for custody, I’ll have the proof of him telling me everything that’s been going on, meanwhile I’m still here taking care of(100%) of our child.