Bad vibes

Does anyone else get physically sick from certain people based on their vibe from them? Im still new to spirituality and started getting more involved with it when a couple of my gut feelings ended up being true and one was actually a prediction that eventually came true. I found texts on my husband's phone with other women and since then its like a veil has been lifted and Im finally seeing him for who he is. I almost dont even recognize him and he feels like a stranger. I swear I can feel almost hostility coming off of him even though hes being "sweet" and joking around with me, it seems like an act. I had an interaction with him earlier that just left me completely disturbed. He was joking around of course but I felt a sinister undertone. It was weird and hard to explain and I literally feel crazy and cant talk to my mom about it since I cant even explain it. Nothing was said and nothing actually happened but I keep getting intense waves of dread and like something bad is going to happen, to me specifically. It kept coming and going throughout the day after he went to work and I almost threw up a bit ago. Im not sure if this is just anxiety or something else. I feel like Im losing my mind. I also tried meditating the other day to open my third eye since Im trying to strengthen my intuition. Just trying to see if anyone else has experienced anything like this before or how to get rid of this feeling

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.
Add a comment
Avatar

Try to connect with your guides (I call them my spirit guides). Ask them what you need to know or straightforward yes or no questions. We all have guides, but we also have free will, so they have to be called in to help us (we have to ask). You can tell the difference between your guides/guardian angels and anxiety/fear because guidance from your guides will always be calm and will not provoke fear inside you. If the voice or message is calm, it’s your guides, if it’s anxious, afraid, alarmist etc, it’s your anxiety/fear or something else. TRUST YOUR INTUITION. Do what you need to do to keep yourself safe and protected even if you feel crazy doing it. You can also ask them for protection. Sending you lots of love. The veil is being lifted now so anything false falls away. You’re not crazy. You’re tuning into a different frequency

Avatar

Not sick in a long time, because I learned to mask it, but very tired, because it was so draining. Doesn't happen to me anymore.
has some very good advice, but before you call on your guides, you should protect yourself. Because you're obviously in the midst of low frequency energy, you need to be careful when inviting guides in, or other beings who don't come in light and love might take that opportunity as well.
Make you some chamomile or lavender tea to calm down, do some deep breathing exercises, and then protect yourself.
I suggest you first ground yourself. If you don't know how to do that, the easiest way is to pretend you're a tree with roots coming out from your feet, connect yourself with Mother Earth. Then visualize yourself inside an iridescent bubble, except it cannot be easily popped. It is very resilient and stretchy and nothing bad can come in to mess with you. After that you can invite your spirit guides.
Good luck with everything, and I agree, trust your intuition!

Avatar

Yeah it used to happen to me when I was in my teens a looooot. I mainly just got better at not putting myself near shitty people.

Read more on Peanut

Trending

in our community

Are family members entitled to your kids

I need to know if me and my husband are making the right decision for our family.

If you and your sibling have a history of really bad fights that turn verbally and mentally abusive, your sibling has disrespected your partner multiple times, are you going to talk about it, forgive and forget and still allow them in your child’s life or push them away because you won’t allow that behaviour around your child. And does them being family give them any right to having a relationship with your kids

Avatar

9

Nursery fee’s (UK)

How much (may I ask) is everyone who pays for nursery actually paying.
As of April our fee’s have increased but I must admit I’m in shock and embarrassed if anything to admit we can’t afford the additional £65 a month it is costing us.

We currently pay £161 now, our son goes
8am-6pm Monday and Friday. As we both work obviously he goes term and none term time.

What do I do he’s in a “contract” technically with the nursery. It’s currently taking 3 days wages to afford the £161 we pay now. I understand we use the government top up pot but he’s only claiming 20 out of the funded hours and I don’t know what to do!

Help!

Avatar

26

How do people make marriages work

I got married to my husband when I was 17 he was 19. Got married cause I got pregnant with my oldest. My husband wasn’t faithful to me and years later I wasn’t faithful to him. I tried ending the marriage. But he wanted to try to make it work out. Well I have been trying but everytime I turn around my mistakes that I have made he throws them in my face or he will make comments about how I I haven’t messaged any other guys and all this and that. I’m so over it. I love my husband and I wanted to make it work but I’m to the point to where I just want to crawl under a rock and just let go. I feel like I’m not wanted and I feel like I’m an even worse mother. I’m on medication for depression and axienty but I haven’t been taking it daily I only take it when I feel like I need it. I just don’t know where I fit in in my marriage I don’t know what I want to do with my life. I’m 27 I have 4 kids and I just feel like I’m alone.

Avatar

4

28

Stupid comments made by husbands

Anybody elses husband or significant other just make comments without ever thinking? have total foot in mouth syndrome or is it just mine? For example my friend and I were talking on the phone about how her baby daddy cheated on her after I got off the phone my husband proceeds to tell me that now that he is a dad he understands why men with kids cheat but he does not condone it. thoughts?

Avatar

2

14

Going out

Where are you taking baby out atm while they are still just a few weeks old?

What age will you start taking them out properly e.g. to coffee shops, classes, theme parks (for older sibling), play dates, farm etc?

Avatar

1

6

I hate my life

I thought my first kid was hard but this one is horrendous. He complains or whines majority of the time. His sleep is ridiculous, even his naps are a joke. I am burnt out and miserable. I genuinely hate being a mum. Why I've done it twice I have no idea. I'm about ready to ram my head into a wall

Avatar

3

12

Read more on Peanut