Wake-up Confusion

Hey 👋🏼 I’m just about 3 weeks postpartum and I’ve been experiencing a little wake-up confusion. It’s not the confusion you hear about where I wake up thinking I was holding her, can’t find her and feel anxiety. It’s simply I wake up from her crying/ready to eat, my husband will say something to me (or my son if it was a random early morning nap) and I respond with something that doesn’t make any sense. I’m sleeping relatively well as our daughter only wakes up twice in the middle of the night and I’m feeling pretty good. Anyone else experience this brain fog?

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Do you stick to the 30 minute car seat advice ?

We live in a small village and the 2 nearest cities are around 45 minutes from us. Seems silly to get the baby out for the sake of 15 minutes

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Hey everyone, looking for advice on navigating some tough stepfamily dynamics.

My partner and I have been together for a while. There was a lot of drama with his ex at the beginning, so the kids didn't like me initially. I get why the transition was hard, but we're running into a wall now that I gave birth.

The 12-year-old daughter has been super moody and upset about the pregnancy, especially stressing over whether it's a girl (we waited till I gave birth to find out the gender). On a recent FaceTime (which included the ex and the 17yo son), she literally sat in the background the whole time texting, ignoring us completely.

It really unsettled me especially the thought of her resentment if I had a daughter. I gave birth to a baby boy but still.

How do you guys handle stepkids who are openly resentful about a new baby, and how do you set boundaries with FaceTime calls when the ex is involved? Any advice is appreciated!

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