Acting weird

And I feel you are absolutely right!

Yes me too. Regardless what you feel and until when this should be respected by everyone who loves you, this is what i believe 🥰❤️ you are doing your best here surely he should get it

You are absolutely right, jokes about baby appearances are distasteful, period! And you stepping in is the right thing to do.

Why are people even making jokes on her appearance? That's very strange behaviour to me even for adults. Stay being protective and doing right by her.

You’re not wrong to be concerned bringing baby to a social gathering, but the things you have mentioned.. have they happened? If not I would say you seem to have some anxiety if you’re anticipating things that haven’t happened. Maybe that’s why your husband mentioned pp? I totally get running every scenario and the what ifs that could happen through my brain before events but I suffer from anxiety myself lol.

I didn’t have PPD but anyone who makes jokes about a child’s appearance is a weirdo and I would also be calling that out.

Who is bullying babies?

I wouldn’t call out people on how they handle her, especially if they are childless themselves, just help them hold her better and give a bit of reassurance. I never held a baby until I had my own and had to be shown and constantly asked the midwives if I was doing it right. Also rescheduling if late at night is normal, a one off every now and then is fine but if it’s constant it’s disruptive and not considerate of friends with kids.

I don’t know all the ins and outs, but I side with you and you should probably trust your intuition and feelings.