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imo you’re not being dramatic at all, plus the potential for allergens in the choc you’re unaware of, like nuts and stuff. I’d be really annoyed if I was you x

Not overreacting at all! Id be annoyed

I was so upset when I got home that I didn’t say more 🫠 thinking about it more today I actually can’t believe it!

This is so bad, I would be so angry. The comments about food i could let pass, but the blatant disrespect of your wishes/ what you had literally just said to them would really upset me. Plus the safety risk.

You are not dramatic at all, how dare people to get involved in parent's parenting decisions! I'd ask you husband to let her know her boundaries

I would be so annoyed, one they took away giving your baby his first try of food second it’s your child they should respect your wishes. I’d tell my partner to say something because that overstepping a boundary yes they can have their opinion but not do whatever they please

I think that is what has really upset me too. I literally just said what my plan was and they basically went behind my back. It was written all over there faces when I caught them, they stopped immediately! so they knew it was a wrong thing to do, so why do it? I can’t believe how much people don’t listen to the mother of a child 😭

Totally on yoir side, not overreacting, its a disrespect of authority, a disregard of your wishes, a lack of self control, a thoughtless thing like Leah said it could contain allergens, and its just a breach of trust at the end of the day... I dont mean to exaggerate, but things always start small...almost like testing the waters... and almost like they know better because they've had kids (hate that argument) but no, its a breach of trust and hard to trust people who go behind your back especially revolving around your baby

You aren't being dramatic. It's also not recommended until 6 months

I would be furious

No. They have no respect for your boundaries. The guidance had changed since their day. In all honesty, I would have left entirely

You are not being dramatic at all. They crossed a line there big time. I would have been absolutely fuming too, 1. dismissing your wishes, 2. using their fingers and 3. that it was chocolate.
I would give them a stern talking to.

WTF. I would have been furious if they did it to my son. I had taken him away and given them a mouthful without any sugar coating.
I possibly had even left and made clear to them that they were allowed to see my baby again once they self reflected their behaviour, apologised and understood that your boundaries/ rules have to be respected. Otherwise I would not trust them with my baby again. My MIL is great at not respecting boundaries and when she made fun of them and said that she would not follow them, my partner told her off. He told her that behaviour is exactly the reason I (baby mama) don't trust her and leave her alone with my baby and she better feels "overlooked " and if she continues with her drama, she'll be the one missing out

I'm 💯 with you, I'd be really annoyed at not being listened too or respected

Am fuming for you! It’s your child, you decide what’s best! Tell them no, who cares what they think. You and your child are the priority!

Thank you everyone ❤️