So fed up now, can’t cope

So fed up with not being able to move my body and feeling physically tired and just massive. The days are dragging… over 38 weeks now

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I feel the absolute same and soo over it

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Due on sunday, I cannot wait 😭 im doing everything I can to get this damn baby OUT I wanna be able to breathe and lay on my back/stomach again 😭

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Currently 36 weeks and I can't barely walk 🥲

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I wish I enjoyed it but I don’t. I’m
Just miserable inside constantly.

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I find it so unhelpful when people tell me to enjoy this time before the baby comes.


I'm exhausted from not sleeping a full night in past couple of months, I have pelvic pain, can't walk too far without needing to pee, Walking up and downstairs I'm out of breath,backache and heartburn. Not being able to concentrate on things, having a nap twice a day to function. This is not an enjoyable experience, it's not a holiday or break it's survival. People making me feel bad for entertaining the idea of a C-section to speed up the baby arrival, but I'm eager to focus on the recovery stage and meeting my baby instead of the limbo stage

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39 weeks and honestly same, I just want to scream

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Same here !!! 39 weeks + 4 days I’m getting induced tomorrow , I’m scared! I wanted to have baby naturally but it looks like he doesn’t want to !!

I feel so big, ugly , can’t move properly , I have PUPPP all over my belly and breast just came a couple weeks ago they gave me a cream but nothing helps!! It’s so itchy and uncomfortable and they said “ sorry it will just go away after your baby is born, is another gift from baby” I’m like f**** that!!
I’m So moody all the time . I’m glad I’m not the only one feeling like that!

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Same here! So tired all the time because my sleep is so broken at night and everytime I mention this to someone I get the ‘ahhh just you wait for newborn nights’ like I don’t know a newborn baby will keep me awake! Makes me so irrationally angry 😂 these last few weeks are so hard. Very ready to not be pregnant anymore!!

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