My mum parks across my driveway sometimes (maybe up to twice a week) as there’s limited on street parking nearby.
Someone has been pushing her wing mirrors in, obviously in protest. Her car is older, and the wing mirror has been broken twice by doing this.
See my doodle. The guy doing this lives at the house at the top of the road’s turning circle. He walks the path of the purple line across the turning circle to do it to the car.
The road is not a busy road at all, it’s a short culdesac/dead end road. The pavement by my driveway is blocked by a bush and a lamppost (drawn in my pic lol), and any pedestrians would need to go on the road anyway to get past, even if her car wasn’t there. There are no obstructions on the pavement on the other side of the road.
Do you think what he is doing is fair??
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He shouldn’t be touching the vehicle however you also cannot block any road, especially pedestrians, it doesn’t matter if pedestrians need to cross the road to get over anyway, there’s regulations which must be followed.

Totally unfair, he could come and talk to you about it. There’s no need to be childish over it.

If her car is obstructing the pathway I see why he is doing it but also get a life man lol 😂
Didn’t you say you can’t carry on walking past anyway ?
Tell your mum to park her car outside his house on the road

I would simply address him nice and calmly, (and friendly or at least to begin with). And simply ask why he keeps turning the mirrors in, and if your mum's car is in his way?
Totally get the whole not blocking a path.. however your mum is entitled to park anywhere on a public road as long as it's no yellow lines etc, and seeing as it's across your drive, it's not like she's taken 'his parking space'. unfortunately there's always someone who likes to think they own the whole road. He's definitely being childish from what you say, but yea start nice and go from there, you'll never sort it if you don't address him about it. Only thing I would say, is try and catch him doing it, so he can't deny it and say it was someone else- then carry on doing it.

Tell him

Do you have what he is doing on camera? (Ring/security footage) If you have that evidence then I would speak to him and ask him to stop, if he continues to cause damage, report it to the police as criminal damage.
The fact that he is doing it on purpose and knows what he is doing and is damaging the car is enough for me to know he doesn't respect you as neighbours so why should you give him the benefit, he's doing it out of spite/pettiness.
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