Normal behaviour?

Please help. My son is 12 months old and still breastfed. He goes to nursery twice a week. When we pick him up, he screams all the way home (only 4 mins) and then continues to tantrum and really winds himself up to the point where he is extremely upset and distressed, until I can sit down to feed him. Is this normal please?😭 I’m dreading weening him off

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Could he be overtired? I'm not saying its not normal as every child's different but that's an unusual reaction. I'd be inclined to say is something upsetting him at nursery?

Or do you think he's missed boob all day and thats how he reacts? Is it an option to feed him before you leave to go home? X

Is he getting enough sleep at nursery? If he hasn't been going in for too long an unsettled period is natural as they adjust. It can take time for them to get used to naps at nursery or being fed by bottle and not breastfed like they are used to. Speak to the Nursery to ask how he's doing with sleep and feeds while he's there. Sometimes you need to prompt them to communicate.

Personally yes. My daughter is a similar age and will be fine all day. As soon as she sees me she cries until she’s fed!
I think they’re just keen for it once they know it’s readily available again. To most babies it’s comforting to them.

I always fed my son in the car before we went home (also live 5 mins from nursery). It was a lovely moment just me and him reconnecting and then meant that he didn’t scream the whole way home x

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