At my company I normally get a bonus annually in March. I went on Mat leave in October 2025. I was expecting my bonus to come through this month however just checked my payslip and no bonus which I was really disappointed. My line manager has left the company just right after I went on mat leave so I don’t have a manager to contact. Has anyone been in similar situation? Am I being treated unfairly because I’m on Mat leave hence the no bonus pay?
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This is a really difficult one to prove as bonuses are not guaranteed but if you know that everyone else has had a bonus as usual I’d definitely speak to the line manager and or HR xx

You should be entitled to your bonus, do you have a HR department you can contact ?

Definitely still entitled to a bonus. Contact HR.

Oh no..I got my bonus. Did you have your year end conversation?

Do you have a signed contract stating how long you get the bonus for? Where I work we get it for the first 6 months of our year off

I think you are supposed to be entitled to it, I got mine last mat leave x

I’m having a similar issue regarding pay rises. My team have been given them for hitting targets and I’ve been told I need to wait until I return from mat leave. I looked it up and it’s definitely maternity discrimination. I’d contact HR and tell them you will take it higher.
Do you know if the rest of your team received their bonus?

Contact HR and ask question…. It all depends from your work policy but I’m sure you should get one.

I didn’t get my bonus until I returned to work from mat leave

Thats not right. You are still employed and this should have been handed over to your new manager. Advise hr that you will be seeking advice from acas. Whether you were getting a bonus or not should have been communicated

On my first pregnancy they told me it was a discretionary bonus based on achievement of KPI and as I was pn maternity i didnt achieve anything therefore not eligible.
I now have a new job so im not hoping for a bonus but still hope I get something haha at least pro rata of what I worked

Oh yes indeed ! Is it written in your company handbook in the bonus section that you are not eligible during mat pay ? Double check that and if not ho straight to HR with a serious complaint
Hi ladies! Just a quick update here. So my line managers (who has now left the business) boss has come back to me and gave me some lame excuse about me not receiving my bonus and pay increase saying because there’s a new policy changed that happened a year ago about monthly trainings that if they are not completed we would not get a pay rise and bonus which I believe it’s loads BS and then after the meeting I then went onto our system to review my year end review and it was him that marked me down! Which in the meeting he did not mention anything that it was him that completed my year end review. I’m so pissed and feel so discriminated and treated unfairly! I’ve escalated it to HR but feels like HR will protect the company. What else can I do? Any advices please x

Were these trainings added whilst you were on leave? Also if there is a new policy, is there a comms?
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I’m not the most extroverted person ever, but I crave connection.
I’m not sure how to combat this and get myself out of this rut. If anyone has any feedback, comments, and solutions please let me know! I’m open to hearing all responses :))
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My manager has just removed me from the work group chat and her only text was to tell me that she’s doing that until I return. The group chat is nothing but a bit of banter so no serious work talk. It’s made me feel a bit low. And felt like it wasn’t something that was really necessary.
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Hello! I’m a first time mom and I’m in a few mom groups but I don’t feel like I connect with anyone. Most of the groups contain moms who either have issues with their spouse, have PPD or just have a bad outlook on being a mom. I try to connect but I haven’t experienced any of that with my baby or husband. From the pregnancy up until now, I haven’t experienced any sadness, feeling disconnection to my baby or husband , haven’t been depressed or upset. I’ve been enjoying literally every moment of motherhood. I don’t mind being up all night if baby decides to not sleep, I breastfeed and co-sleep (please don’t judge, baby has a in-bed bassinet) . I don’t want to seem like I’m better than the other moms cause I know I’m not so I just keep my distance as I don’t want anyone to feel uncomfortable 😔
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I don’t know which brand to choose.
I’m looking to get pregnant sometime in nov.
With my first pregnancy, I was using materna but that’s when I knew nothing about ingredients. I need something less toxic ingredients.
I saw another brand, Jamieson but I’m not sure if it’s vitamin A was too high. I asked AI. It said it was just right.
It has iron.
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My fiancé and I were out having a pretty good, chill day. We stopped to get an oil change, and while they were working on the car, he got our daughter out and sent me back to the car to grab some things.
I look down and see an EMPTY CONDOM WRAPPER in the car. 😐
Now, we haven’t been having sex like that lately, and I know I haven’t had anybody else in the car or been sexually involved with anybody else. So obviously I was caught completely off guard and upset.
I asked him about it, and his response was basically, “I was about to ask you the same thing.” Then he said he hasn’t “thrashed nobody in the car recently.” 🙃
And THAT wording has me stuck because… what exactly does “recently” mean?! 😭
Am I wrong for feeling like that response raised even MORE questions instead of answering the original one? I’m not saying I know he cheated because I don’t. But I feel like I have a right to ask where an empty condom wrapper in our car came from, especially when we haven't been sexually active like that.
Then he got mad at me for how I reacted, and now I’m sitting here wondering if I’m being gaslit or if there’s an explanation I’m not thinking of.
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