Nanny question

No she should have asked. It’s like me using someone’s coat while I walk their dog..

That’s not acceptable at all, it’s someone else’s belongings. I’d have a word for sure. Set a boundary, otherwise what’s next?

It's definitely not ideal and definitely weird that she didn't at least ask first. However, if she's otherwise been a good nanny I wouldn't sever the relationship for this. I would set a boundary and move on.

Yeah nah that’s not acceptable I’d say something to her and put soak the hat in detergent give it a lil brush off and rinse and dry it in the sun but I’d def say something coz you can’t just go around wearing peoples hats 😵‍💫

I reckon a simple chat she probs just wanted to be warm and forgot hers! If it was for a reason (warmth / sun) thats fine but if just for fashion, weird! Either way asking wouldve been ideal if they couldve