Pregnant teachers?? Help!!!
Am I being a bitch or is being asked “how areee youuu” in that patronising tone 17 times a day by staff members SO annoying. A child said to me this morning “woah your tummy is getting really big”. I’ve had staff members tell me “my pregnant Mrs isn’t that big”. The kids have an excuse but adults??!! WHY do people make ‘big’ comments. It’s crazy because if I turn around and say ‘and so are you’, I’m suddenly the bad guy. How are we all coping doing this job whilst being pregnant. I’m 6mo now. I’m clinging on by a thread 😭😭😭😭.
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You’re not a bitch, it is annoying! Maybe you could speak to a hr or member of management in regards to staff making comment on your body being inappropriate, or if feeling you can, say something like well this is the size I am, stop commenting it’s rude. I don’t know if the school would help in anyway but it might also be useful way of teaching kids that it’s rude to comment on people’s bodies
Adults have no excuse for that harassing behaviour, whatever the setting. I'm so sorry you're going through that. School is so unrelenting for us pregnant teachers at the best of times! I would involve HR, you shouldn't have to put up with this.
I'm not a teacher but I do get told I'm big by strangers. It doesn't bother me. People don't see pregnant ladies often and probably forget every pregnancy and person is different. I would just let it roll off your back and just tell them,"yep I sure am and baby is growing good and healthy." And walk away. I dont think they mean you harm just trying to make conversation.
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