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Why is it that when someone comes to talk about their husband. The very first option or advice people on here give is “Leave him” leave your marriage, ?? You don’t think of couple counselling, trip together to rekindle the relationship , the child/ren involved,or just something else aside leave the marriage! If it’s not domestic violence or cheating, please suggest more good options or advices to people and stop misleading them. It’s easier said than done cause you not in their shoes. Do better .

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AMEN!!!! there are so many things that can be fixed with a single conversation. leaving isn’t the overall solution to every problem.

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Agreed! I had that happen to me when I first got married and 15 years later the same person said why didn’t you call me. I said do you remember the advice you gave me the first time. No thank you!

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Do yall think 🤔 that texting other men/women online is consider cheating? Or do you think cheating is just physical and texting?

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be careful who’s on here

This is supposed to be a space for moms and children. I just came across a profile named “Rebecca” that openly said they’re on here because they feel lonely and want to talk to mom . That does not sit right with me at all.
It was a man with a half ass wig and beard. We do NOT know people’s intentions on here, and there are kids involved. This is not a random social app — it’s meant for mothers and a safe environment.

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Am i a shitty mom

My son is about to be 9 months, and we currently live with his dad in a duplex. He doesnt work. If he does he works maybe 3 days and finds an excuse to quit. He says its not worth his time for what they pay. I work sunday through friday 5 am to 1:30 and i cant make ends meet. When i was on maternity leave he let bills rack up crazy and i had to use my whole retun to pay off the bills. And now ik the asshole because we obly jave about 200 dollars till i get paid again on the 18th. This is what he had to say when i complained that we wouldnt have had to use all of my return of he wouldve ketp a job that was perfect for our schedule and for our commute. He quit the job because they obly paid him 18/hr and he wasnt gonna do the job pf a machine for soemone who smokes a vape( he hates people who vape and his manager was doing so). Am i a shitty mom if i take my son away from his dad and run to harbor house? I just cant keep with financial abuse. I try everything to keep us above water and he just spits in my face about it.

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Hii💗

Looking for a friend to chat with
I do have Snapchat: gbaby582
Pls let me know if you add me on there😊

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Does anyone else ever feel like the “disposable” friend?

Like you show up, you care deeply, you try to be there for people… but the moment you can’t give 100%, it’s like your value drops. Like you’re only needed when you’re strong, available, and pouring into everyone else. I’m the kind of person who responds quickly and will continuously be there. I just feel like it’s not reciprocated…

I guess I’m just wondering… how do you know the difference between outgrowing a friendship and just going through a rough spot?

Would love to hear from anyone who’s felt this way 🖤

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Gay relationships or transgender people being mentioned/ shown in children shows and movies

Are you uncomfortable with the topic of either being in children’s books or shows?

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