Why is it that when someone comes to talk about their husband. The very first option or advice people on here give is “Leave him” leave your marriage, ?? You don’t think of couple counselling, trip together to rekindle the relationship , the child/ren involved,or just something else aside leave the marriage! If it’s not domestic violence or cheating, please suggest more good options or advices to people and stop misleading them. It’s easier said than done cause you not in their shoes. Do better .
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AMEN!!!! there are so many things that can be fixed with a single conversation. leaving isn’t the overall solution to every problem.

Agreed! I had that happen to me when I first got married and 15 years later the same person said why didn’t you call me. I said do you remember the advice you gave me the first time. No thank you!