How do I tell him?
Lately I’ve been questioning my relationship with my boyfriend/baby’s father. It hasn’t just been lately, it’s been practically ever since I’ve been pregnant, it’s like a switch in I’m turned and he became so untrusting of me and kind of controlling in a way.
But after I lost/my purse was stolen and he asked me for some money and I told him the last bit of money I had I spent it on getting a new drivers license, he called me a liar, I can’t do it anymore.
I want to tell him how I feel and see how he reacts but in all seriousness I just want to end things and co parent the best way possible.
How do I tell him how I feel because he isn’t the easiest when it comes to me speaking my mind on things he thinks I’m lying about or what I’m saying isn’t true
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IF Y'ALL DON'T LIVE TOGETHER LEAVE HIM A NOTE MAKE SURE NOT TO ANSWER ANY EXTRA QUESTIONS IF HE CALLS TEXT HIM I NEED SPACE
DON'T ANSWER HIS CALLS BE VERY SHORT YET HONEST WITH HIM.
ALSO MAYBE YOU SHOULD BE THINKING ABOUT WHAT HE'S DOING. CAUSE MEN TEND TO GET LIKE THIS WHEN THEY ARE DOING SOMETHING THEY AREN'T SUPPOSED TO.
Honestly trust your gut. If you want to end things do so for your mental health. I totally can relate to your situation about you speaking your mind and him not listening. If I were you I would say what you need in a text instead of talking in person just so you dont get frazzled by chance and can be clear and concise.
And who lies about not having money because you had to pay to get your license because your purse got lost/stolen. Does he ask for money all the time or was this like a one off?
And I agree with Mimie you should think about what he is doing.
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