I have a confession….
When my boyfriend and I argue, I drag it out because it’s the only time I get to decompress from girlfriend duties and I get to enjoy my simple individual pleasures like catching up on my girl shows and just not being otp 24/7
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Tell him you need recharge time! It has worked well for my husband as well as my best friend who enjoy their own time as they are introverts
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Is it safe to have sex?
This might sound really silly and I’ve been all over google/chat gpt but thought the best place for reassurance would be here..! So I am 40+2 just now and I had a sweep on Thursday. I was 3cm dilated and the midwife said she felt the baby’s head. I have since lost my show and had some pains but still no waters broken. Am I safe to have sex??? I wasn’t told not to, but I can’t get my head around (from google and chat GPT) that the baby’s head wont get hit? 🤣🤣 since the midwife was able to feel it with just her fingers?? I just don’t want to give my baby a sore head lol
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Baby Daddy 😒
My baby daddy hasn’t been apart of my pregnancy. We were previously together and then he broke up with me when I was still newly pregnant. He is upset because I have picked the name and I am choosing to hyphenate the last name. I am not sure if I want him at the birth, not because I don’t want him there, but because I don’t want the stress and continuing non support while I’m in the middle of bringing a life into the world. Am I wrong ? I am 30 weeks today & I am working on my birth plan, as it stands, it explicitly states that he isn’t to be there until after baby. But I don’t want to hurt him or regret it in the long run. But I feel like L&D is stressful enough without him adding to it. What do I do?
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Feeling alone
This is my first pregnancy and I’m starting to get worried about how I’ll be postpartum. I have an amazing husband who honestly is the best support and person I could ask for.
I just don’t have any friends. I’ve not had any friends for about 5 years so only have my husband to hang out with but don’t want to suffocate him.
I’ve been fine not having any girl friends generally as I’ve been at work to have other people to talk to but now I’ve finished work I’m already feeling very low and worried how I’ll be postpartum when it’s just me.
Sorry for the rant but looking for some advice :)
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Heyy
Anyone available to chat every day? Someone who genuinely enjoys talking and doesn’t always wait for me to text first. I want a friendship with mutual effort, not just hi and hello.
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Adult friendships
I know I see others venting about this often and I’m just so frustrated. Why is it so hard to make adult friends???
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Bestie
💕 Looking for a bestie! 🫶🏻 I’m 30 and from Texas 🤠 Just want a genuine friendship where we can talk every day, share TikToks, gossip, and be there for each other! 🥹💗 No drama, just bestie vibes! 🎀💕
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