I'm at a lost, my 3-month-old who will turn 4 months old on the 29th is not sleeping. She hasn't slept really all day but maybe 10 minutes like twice so like 20 minutes total. I can tell that she is very tired she's yawning she's not cranky surprisingly but she's also not really eating help what do I do
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My baby is doing the same thing he’s eating like 3-4 ounces instead of his normal 5-6 naps are doing okay but nighttime he’s cranky crying yelling and will fall asleep on my arms then when I put him down he’ll sleep for 15 mins then wake up

Welcome to the 4 month regression, my friend! We're all drowning together 🫠 I hope your night sleep doesn't get too trashed like mine is right now. Bub went from being an Okay sleeper and napper to now his naps are 20 minutes and he only sleeps 1.5 hours at a time.

Once I can actually get him to sleep he’ll sleep pretty good about 3-4 hours at night

Mine is also 4 months on the 29th and doing similar! It's the beginning of the sleep regression. As they become more aware they like to give up sleep and eat less so they can see what's going on. It will get easier and they will eat when they're hungry. Its going to be hard for a little while. Something that helped me with my ebf baby to actually eat is I started facing the boring thing like the wall so she can see the exciting things around while actually eating. Nights are hard and I know its tempting to try different things to soothe them and get them to go to sleep but changing the routine can actually make it worse. Try to keep the bed time routine the same