Does anyone else think it a chore to have sex with one’s partner?
I have a son who’s very active and needs constant attention and by the time he falls asleep at night I don’t have the energy for anything.
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Sometimes lol. Most of the time I want it, too, but occasionally I'll be exhausted and decide to do it anyway. Or I'll say no and deal with the cold shoulder treatment for the rest of the night 🫠

Here and there I’ll realize it’s been a few weeks and I just haven’t thought of it? So, I tend to MAKE myself initiate because of guilt that I make up in my own mind for not giving my husband attention that I know he craves and respectfully doesn’t push ever when I pull away from burn out or whatever reason I possibly turned him down when he tried. So then, yes it mildly feels like a chore 🤣 but an enjoyable one?