Am I Wrong?
Okay so I gave birth to my beautiful babygirl a month ago now & I’m seriously struggling with my BD. We’ve known each other since high school and were good friends and kinda lost contact after graduation (we’re both 25) so a few years later we reconnected and got into w.e tf that was🙄 so he breaks up with me (due to religious differences even though he knew my religion since HS, he’s Muslim and I’m Christian) and I ended up finding out I was pregnant 2 weeks after the break up. He wasn’t there at all during my pregnancy & that was a whole hot ass mess in itself. He was there when I gave birth and signed her birth certificate & everything but he’s been extremely inconsistent since. He doesn’t check up on her, doesn’t ask about her, comes to my house to see her MAYBE once during the week (one time he went a week without acknowledging her presence) and we got into an argument about that because he didn’t show up to her one month appointment and made every excuse in the book for it even though he was right there when we scheduled it. When he didn’t see her for that whole week (this was very recent) he asked to come by and I told him no because he didn’t bother to even check on her let alone want to see her. I did everything by myself (setting up her pediatrician, making sure she got her insurance, getting her birth certificate, etc) And now once again for this week he has yet to check on her or see her and he blames it on “being busy”. I’m just so tired of being the primary parent and he just comes and goes as he pleases and yet I’m the bad guy when I call him out on it. He doesn’t appreciate the fact that I’m taking care of her 25/8 and I thank God I have my family and friends to help. I’m just so over it and I’m really trying not to resent him but it’s honestly getting really close to that point. I’m sorry this is so long but I just need to know if I would be wrong to not allow him to see her this week if he even ask….?
Looking for a mom friend.
I’m looking for a mom bestie. Someone who won’t judge me but look at me and think omg this girl…I’m a pretty open person, kinda. Uhm I’ll either talk ur ear off or bearly talk at all, I can be out goin and energetic or I can be lazy and sit around. I either say what’s on my mind or I shut down…I’m very very weird(according to my husband). I enjoy Starbucks refreshers, ice coffee, kitchen dance parties with my kids, going on walks/going to the park,baking,grilling,bomb fires, boating…if its outdoors I’m most likely doing it, unless I see a bee of any sort…then I’m running away like a b$ch..I want a friend I can talk to about literally anything no matter how dumb. I have 3kids 4y,2y,4.5m and two dogs. I live in Minnesota about an hr from Brainerd and Alexandria. If you think u can handle my multiple personalities or just think it would be fun to try I’m ya girl.😂
