DISABLED MOM WITH ASD CHILD & NON-ASD CHILD

Hi im Leslie im 30, disabled, I’m from New Jersey born and raised. I have 1 beautiful autistic son and a beautiful 1 daughter, a loving hubby. I stay home. I want friends but I have a hard time keeping up with conversations. I’m not sure why possibly my childhood and never having friends that stays . But here I am putting it out there to give a try and make new friends.

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Okay so I gave birth to my beautiful babygirl a month ago now & I’m seriously struggling with my BD. We’ve known each other since high school and were good friends and kinda lost contact after graduation (we’re both 25) so a few years later we reconnected and got into w.e tf that was🙄 so he breaks up with me (due to religious differences even though he knew my religion since HS, he’s Muslim and I’m Christian) and I ended up finding out I was pregnant 2 weeks after the break up. He wasn’t there at all during my pregnancy & that was a whole hot ass mess in itself. He was there when I gave birth and signed her birth certificate & everything but he’s been extremely inconsistent since. He doesn’t check up on her, doesn’t ask about her, comes to my house to see her MAYBE once during the week (one time he went a week without acknowledging her presence) and we got into an argument about that because he didn’t show up to her one month appointment and made every excuse in the book for it even though he was right there when we scheduled it. When he didn’t see her for that whole week (this was very recent) he asked to come by and I told him no because he didn’t bother to even check on her let alone want to see her. I did everything by myself (setting up her pediatrician, making sure she got her insurance, getting her birth certificate, etc) And now once again for this week he has yet to check on her or see her and he blames it on “being busy”. I’m just so tired of being the primary parent and he just comes and goes as he pleases and yet I’m the bad guy when I call him out on it. He doesn’t appreciate the fact that I’m taking care of her 25/8 and I thank God I have my family and friends to help. I’m just so over it and I’m really trying not to resent him but it’s honestly getting really close to that point. I’m sorry this is so long but I just need to know if I would be wrong to not allow him to see her this week if he even ask….?

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I’m in my 9th week and I don’t feel like seeing anyone or talking to anyone. I feel too tired to go out and socialise. I don’t even want to go to work, and I don’t feel like replying to messages. Do you think this is temporary, or should I seek some support? I haven’t discussed this with my midwife yet.

Thoughts on lack of s*x and initiative from husband

Ladies,

My husband doesn’t get it. He’s not taking the hint or he doesn’t care. I think he might have sexual preferences that I may not be able to cater to hence he doesn’t initiate or perhaps avoids intimacy on purpose.

I haven’t had a dry spell like this in forever. Not in my 20’s or even when I was single. I’m pregnant but there’s no reason why we should have stopped having sex when I got pregnant. I just stopped initiating too because I was exhausted and didn’t think I could initiate and lost all my confidence when my body started changing due to pregnancy.

I do like and care about him but would it be so bad to cheat if we’re sexually incompatible or not on the same wavelength? I know it’s not a good thing but I may actually like our family life together just not the lack of s*x.

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