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Work 🙊 oops

Tinder - 2015

Oh I like this one. So he was the financial advisor at the college I attended. He was trying to figure out how to ask me out without getting his ass in trouble for getting my phone number from the documents he had access too. I was not giving him the time of day when I would go to his office to "bitch" him out for being useless. Well I came across his POF profile and I said why the hell not im broke and he can get me lunch. Been together for 9 years now, married for 6 of them.

My ex friend worked with him and he saw my fb profile and then asked for my number lol

I met mine in high school, we talked a few times but never got together until a couple years after we graduated

We knew all of the same people but never crossed paths and never heard about each other (well I’d never heard of him). I was friends with all of his friends and we used to all go out together but he’d never come. People he grew up with lived directly opposite my mum which is where I was living. I worked 10 minutes from where he lived and still never crossed paths. Then I was going on a night out and went to the pub before and he decided to actually go out for once and happened to be there. Everything fell in to place after that

High School

I left my hometown & would come to visit a couple of times a year . I technically saw him for the first time at my aunt-in-law’s wedding when I was 3 and he was 1. We obviously didn’t talk then 😂

Then many years later at my aunt’s funeral and cousin’s wedding a month after we were both there. But because there were so many people we most likely didn’t even notice the other person then . This was in 2014.

Then in 2022 he sent me a request on Shaadi.com and now in 2026, we are married with our baby , plus I’m back in my hometown 😂

We then found out that we had all of these mutual 😂

the gym

Back in 1998 when he did karate with my brother

At a Doctor Who fan event, then at a Doctor Who convention 4 months later - at which point it transpired that we were studying some of the same subjects at uni but he'd been too nervous to approach me there.

We both joined our job at the same time and met in training 😊

Air cadets. We were both volunteers.

in our community

Am I Wrong?

Okay so I gave birth to my beautiful babygirl a month ago now & I’m seriously struggling with my BD. We’ve known each other since high school and were good friends and kinda lost contact after graduation (we’re both 25) so a few years later we reconnected and got into w.e tf that was🙄 so he breaks up with me (due to religious differences even though he knew my religion since HS, he’s Muslim and I’m Christian) and I ended up finding out I was pregnant 2 weeks after the break up. He wasn’t there at all during my pregnancy & that was a whole hot ass mess in itself. He was there when I gave birth and signed her birth certificate & everything but he’s been extremely inconsistent since. He doesn’t check up on her, doesn’t ask about her, comes to my house to see her MAYBE once during the week (one time he went a week without acknowledging her presence) and we got into an argument about that because he didn’t show up to her one month appointment and made every excuse in the book for it even though he was right there when we scheduled it. When he didn’t see her for that whole week (this was very recent) he asked to come by and I told him no because he didn’t bother to even check on her let alone want to see her. I did everything by myself (setting up her pediatrician, making sure she got her insurance, getting her birth certificate, etc) And now once again for this week he has yet to check on her or see her and he blames it on “being busy”. I’m just so tired of being the primary parent and he just comes and goes as he pleases and yet I’m the bad guy when I call him out on it. He doesn’t appreciate the fact that I’m taking care of her 25/8 and I thank God I have my family and friends to help. I’m just so over it and I’m really trying not to resent him but it’s honestly getting really close to that point. I’m sorry this is so long but I just need to know if I would be wrong to not allow him to see her this week if he even ask….?

Looking for a mom friend.

I’m looking for a mom bestie. Someone who won’t judge me but look at me and think omg this girl…I’m a pretty open person, kinda. Uhm I’ll either talk ur ear off or bearly talk at all, I can be out goin and energetic or I can be lazy and sit around. I either say what’s on my mind or I shut down…I’m very very weird(according to my husband). I enjoy Starbucks refreshers, ice coffee, kitchen dance parties with my kids, going on walks/going to the park,baking,grilling,bomb fires, boating…if its outdoors I’m most likely doing it, unless I see a bee of any sort…then I’m running away like a b$ch..I want a friend I can talk to about literally anything no matter how dumb. I have 3kids 4y,2y,4.5m and two dogs. I live in Minnesota about an hr from Brainerd and Alexandria. If you think u can handle my multiple personalities or just think it would be fun to try I’m ya girl.😂

Mom Friend's?

Hey everyone looking for mom friends to text and get to know?

DISABLED MOM WITH ASD CHILD & NON-ASD CHILD

Hi im Leslie im 30, disabled, I’m from New Jersey born and raised. I have 1 beautiful autistic son and a beautiful 1 daughter, a loving hubby. I stay home. I want friends but I have a hard time keeping up with conversations. I’m not sure why possibly my childhood and never having friends that stays . But here I am putting it out there to give a try and make new friends.