Coffee/Brunch Meetup

Hi mamas 💛

Thinking of organizing a casual coffee/brunch meet-up sometime mid-June (Seattle area)!

Figured it’d be nice to connect with others in the same phase navigating sleep deprivation, feeding schedules, body changes, and everything in between 🤍

Super low-key, baby-friendly, and judgment-free. Nothing fancy, just a chance to get out, chat, and meet other moms. Little ones are totally welcome but not required — come however you can!☕️👶

If you’d be interested, comment below on your preferred date or DM me and I’ll coordinate a date that works for most of us!

in our community

Am I being a bitch?

2nd date. Guy offers to cook me a meal at his place. I arrive and he makes me a jacket potato with baked beans and cheese.

Thoughts?

First time mum - to - be

Always looking for friends, long distance or not. Snaps or streaks.

Maybe I have an unpopular opinion

Why does it matter so much to others if you are straight, gay, lesbian, bi, nonbinary etc (yes, I know there are several others, but I gave up a while ago keeping up with all the variations). If you are not harming anyone or anything and are not pushing your lifestyle on someone else, THEN WHO CARES. I've seen so many posts saying "does this make me gay or bi" Honestly, who says sexuality is linear? If you like it and it's not hurting anyone then go for it. You only have one life.

Now I have to admit I do have an issue when you identify as an animal or alien or something like that.

Don’t like sex

I don’t want to have sex with my husband anymore because it’s boring and has become a chore. But at the same time I don’t want him masturbating. I feel so conflicted. I even hate it when he cums in his sleep because I’m wondering what he’s dreaming about!

Tonight he was trying to initiate and I just didn’t want to because I’m on my period (which takes up half the month - another story for another day) and he fell asleep and an hour later was up and masturbating in the bathroom. It lasted like 5 seconds so he must have been desperate.

I just don’t know what to do, I love my husband but I don’t really like sex that much. I don’t want him to get bored and find someone else to do it with so I’m pretty stuck! Does anyone else feel the same?

Hiii

So I’m 8 months postpartum and I’ve truly been in the trenches and am trying to do better for me and my baby. I want to start feeling like myself, slowly but surely and I think a way for me to do is to make friends that are also moms. I’m not originally from here (I’m from NY) and I don’t have many friends here but the ones that I do are not moms so it’s been a little difficult to relate as of late (love them so so deeply though). I am looking to make genuine friends that we can simply just sit in each other presence and also maybe actually plan things sometimes 😭 we can be low effort AND high effort! 😭

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Hey, im interested in joining the gym but im super nervous and would like advice about gym clothes and where to buy them (a lot of clothes I've looked at seem to be made for women who are already skinny)