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Wrote this in my notes. I just need to vent…Where do I go from here. In therapy already. When do I say enough is enough? Married for 6 years together for 11…. I’m trying 😢

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Bsby daddy and best mate

So me and my baby’s dad split up around a month ago but we still live together so that our LO (9 weeks) still has both of us around we went away this last week to go see BDs family in Scotland (booked before the split) and he was all sweet with me and saying he wants to try and work it out between us so we can be a family. we got back last night and he goes out at midnight didn’t tell me when he was going and I fell asleep when I wake up at 6am he is still not here so I looked to see where he was and he was at my best mates house and I find out that he was in her bed.
This mate of mine as been around the whole pregnancy and was the first person to find out I was pregnant and was even there when my LO was born

Child benefit query advice please

So my partner & I have separated but baby & I are still living with him for the time being until I sort out accommodation. I’m unable to work & currently on universal credit due to that. Because child benefit eligibility is based on an individual’s taxable income & he says he has £60,000 will dad be required to pay back the benefit, even though we are separated & now single ?

To keep or not to keep

Hi guys seeking advice from anyone who’s been in a similar situation. Just recently found out I am pregnant to my ex who I have been on and off with for 8 years. Prior to this we were hanging out every weekend per normal and even talking about getting back together. After I found out I’m pregnant the drama with him started. He says he is not ready for the baby and it would ruin what’s going on in his life. (Men…) Due to a previous miscarriage of mine I’m scared of letting it go and an abortion is the last thing I want. Not sure what to do but I feel alone and scared because it has been a few weeks and although he is checking up on me he still is saying he isn’t ready for a baby

Do you sometimes feel like a bad mom just because you want a little time for yourself?

My baby is almost 7 months old, and sometimes I really crave some me-time. When I ask other moms about it, the usual response is: ‘I can’t imagine going anywhere without a baby.’ It makes me feel a bit strange, like am I bad for wanting to catch up with my old life, even just for 2 hours?

Need a girl friend.

Both my besties moved as and I need a girl bestie to talk to. I work full time, started my own social media brand and I have 3 boys and 2 step daughters.

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