Apps for weaning

Any recommendations for a first time mummy at the start of the weaning journey? Any apps you suggest?
Purées or finger food?

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Solid starts app! The free version does everything you need. It tells you how to prepare/serve basically any food for different ages/stages. We did purées under medical advisement because our daughter needed the help gaining weight. Most people I know have done a combination. The only real difference I've noticed between mine and BLW toddlers is that mine took a bit longer to get on board with self feeding. A few people I know who did BLW to start changed to combi because they found that their baby wasn't really eating anything much! So I'd do whatever you feel most comfortable with and be open to combining/changing things around depending on how yours gets on and how you're feeling. It's really easy to make purées, I just did extra veg for our meals and blended with breast milk then froze it in little pots!

And remember it's about learning to eat, it doesn't matter if they just play with it at first and don't take in much volume! I'd also recommend keeping an eye on weight - a friend of mine's little girl took to food quite quickly but because she was eating mostly veg it wasn't giving her the same calories as milk so her weight really tailed off! Everything was fine just one to look out for. I think it's important to get them weighed regularly anyway!

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