Father's Day

Anyone else have mixed feelings about father's day? I just think about the fact that I'm the default and he will typically hold/take care of her if I ask..like if I need to shower or go out to do something.I also think about the fact that I get up in the night..he doesnt..I get her ready for the day before I work (I start at 8 am sharp..his job is lenient). And particularly last night I was exhausted from getting our baby to sleep but he was tired from staying up playing video games.My daughter is everything to me and I think I'm doing a great job but he could...certainly be more helpful and asking for help all the time without volunteering is exhausting. I'm also curious to how you all split responsibilities.

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I’m so sorry to hear that your partner had not been helpful in the way you need him to. Not sure if you already tried, but a good sit down talk might be needed cause men need to hear it to understand exactly what you need.
I’m a SAHM and my husband works but we still split the nights, our baby usually wakes up 3 times he goes the first time I go the second time and third time, so he can sleep a little more.
We exclusively bottle feed since the very beginning so my husband could always help as much as me.
As soon as he gets home from work he takes the baby for the 2h before baby goes to bed, so I can take some time for myself if I want to.
Since my baby was born I was very direct to him on splitting all responsibilities 50/50, there’s nothing I do more than him on weekends when we’re both at home, I know I would have gotten very resentful if that was the case.

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