Money or Love

Would you rather be married to a man with money that doesn’t do anything with you, or show you any love.

Or would you rather be married to a man that adores you, and shows you a lot of love but is broke?

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I think im trapped in the money no love right now and I 1000% want the love

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If I’m in a loveless marriage with lots of money can I divorce and take half the money? Or have a boyfriend 👀

I gotta have both lol can’t do one without the other

No love is hard but struggling in this climate with nothing to your name can be very scary and dangerous.

If it’s now, as a SAHM with kids, the money and the carefree life of privilege.

If it was 10 years ago, the love cause I made my own money and didn’t have to worry about feeding my babies.

Being broke can be a temporary situation. A person can always make money and become financially sucessful. 🤣

Is he going to be broke temporarily or for ever? He can be broke and still bring other things into the relationship like being a good SAHD while I work. But if he is bringing in debt and trouble, then bye.

Only money situation, as long as there is no lack of respect, sounds like a lot of freedom to do whatever I want, which sounds awesome.

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Husband lost interest in sex?

Anyone else dealing with this? Does it get better after pregnancy? It’s hard for me to not be in my head about it. We are expecting our first child. We used to have an amazing sex life, but as soon as I got pregnant, my partner lost interest. We’ve only had awkward sex or failed sex this whole time. Yesterday, we got married and I thought the excitement of that might lead to things happening, but he still is not interested. We tried and he wasn’t able to. Then he initiated again and still wasn’t able to. I tried not to show I was upset but it lead me to cry, and now I’m afraid that made it even worse. This is effecting my self esteem really badly. I feel unattractive and like he doesn’t see me the way he used to anymore.

Actually I have felt lonely in general. He’s
busy with work a lot. And he said he would make time for our elopement to feel special, but he ended up working all evening after we eloped and read each other vows. Then the next day, it was just like a regular Tuesday, not like we had just gotten married. I wanted to wait to get married until things felt more romantic, but he wanted the baby to have his last name and I wanted the baby to have both our last names if we weren’t married (but I agreed we could change our son’s name once we married).

Would anyone else be upset/sad about not even having sex after getting married? I’m honestly sad about it, and it makes me feel shame for feeling this way

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Baby groups

My baby is almost 3 months and I haven’t attended any baby groups yet. I know some people like them and find them beneficial but I feel like I can do a lot of the sensory stuff at home to save money and he is happy and content at home with family and going out with friends.

Abilene?

Is there anyone in or around Abilene that would want to have coffee or smoothie and chat? Maybe let the littles play?

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How many of yall cut off guy friends while in a relationship on your own doing? Not bc your man wanted you to or said to. But bc you felt like it or deemed it as respectful.

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