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Is it me???

Hey guys, do I’ve been trying to talk to a lot of moms on here and some will text back for a couple of days and then will stop. I can see that they are active and posting things but they’re ignoring me it feels. I only have one friend and she lives like an hour away so I’ve tried to come here to make new friends but nobody is replying to me. Am I just a person that nobody wants to be friends with, like am I that bad that nobody can even text me back or keep a conversation going??? I’m ready to give up looking for new friends bc this wheats happens. Is it me????

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Yeah it happens to me too.

I may not live near you but I would definitely love to keep a conversation going I may not text back right away but definitely will get back to you as soon as I can

Hi Julie. It’s not you. Don’t take it personally. Give it time. You will meet people who responds to you. I only have about three people who talks to me regularly in peanut. We don’t even hang out and I know one or two will disappear. It’s really not you. I know a peanut mommy who lives a block down from me who I always have to initiate contact with and she only sometimes responds. Not everyone is free for people like us

Thank you guys!

Yeah I get the same I have only made one friend on here since 2024

I have no friends on here believe it I’ve tried!

Same. It’s so much like app dating. I don’t understand why so many people are so flaky. It is very frustrating. Especially when you’re feeling the seclusion of motherhood. And just like app dating, I will send out a couple messages to some women and if anybody keeps messaging, I’ll try to exchange numbers and actually meet somebody. But if nobody responds after a while, I send messages to a few more. I’ve only met one person. But she’s great.

And some even post saying looking for bestie, and is like ur ghosting me

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I’m sorry guys but I really need to vent and get this off my chest
I’m a mom of 3 and my last baby is 2 months
My husband decided when I was pregnant was the best time to cheat on me with multiple women
I thought I could stomach it and be fine with it but it is draining me
He have sex with multiple women and lie about it,even till this minute he still talk with those women
He had no idea I go through his phone and see everything
I’ll complain that we are becoming distance day by day and he will say it’s all in my head that we are fine
They all chat day in,day out
I’m exhausted and tired
How am I supposed to believe anything he tells me
How am I suppose to believe the love he said he has for me is real
Gosh
I don’t know how to handle this

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is smth wrong w me

i don’t wanna be a sahm at all. every chance i get i wanna drop off my son or have someone else watch him. im only happy to see him or be around him for short periods of time. i have no time to myself and im exhausted and all i can think of is being alone

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Do you get the ick easily or am I weird

Probs obvious who I am because I’ve been commenting about this but incog because I don’t want this showing on my profile 🤣

Could be as little as the way they use a knife and fork, use of the 🥺 emoji, or how my last ex changed his socks at least 4x per day because his feet sweat so much🥲

I don’t leave bc of these things but they put me off so much that I stop making an effort and we drift apart until one of us calls it
I’m not even bothered that much in the moment but the icks add up until I lose all attraction to them😭 am I just a judgy biatch? can I blame it on my adhd? 😂

I realise I’m probably in the minority bc most of you are in long term relationships so either you don’t get the ick or can look past them, but howwww?

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Would anyone be interesting in joining?!❤️

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Is it me???

Hey guys, do I’ve been trying to talk to a lot of moms on here and some will text back for a couple of days and then will stop. I can see that they are active and posting things but they’re ignoring me it feels. I only have one friend and she lives like an hour away so I’ve tried to come here to make new friends but nobody is replying to me. Am I just a person that nobody wants to be friends with, like am I that bad that nobody can even text me back or keep a conversation going??? I’m ready to give up looking for new friends bc this wheats happens. Is it me????

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Feeling overwhelmed and drained

I am a single mum of two i am currently working part time and I just feel so overwhelmed all the time I dont feel like me anymore just a mum. I dont have many friends to talk to I just feel lonely all the time! Please tell me im not alone here because the mum guilt of how im feeling is killing me 😭😭

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is smth wrong w me

Do you get the ick easily or am I weird

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Is it me???

Feeling overwhelmed and drained