Need friends! 🥲

Honestly guys, I love being a SAHM but it can be sooo lonely sometimes. I moved out here to the Sacramento area for my fiance and left my college town where all my friends were, I’ve been here for a year now and I still have yet to make any friends, especially now that I’m a mom and a young mom at that. Then I found this app but it’s hard to find people that actually want to carry a conversation and get to know me, I understand mom life is busy so I don’t expect to text all day but like most convos on here don’t go past “hi how are you?” Loll idk maybe it’s just me. But I’m sooo in need of girl time so if anyone is interested in building an actual friendship let me know haha 🤍

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First birthday present - which to get?

Bare in mind it will be going into autumn

Is this patronising??

I left thank you teacher gifts to the last day today, as I’ve had a nightmare 2 weeks with zero spare time, so just had to find some bits in local Morrisons.

I got - mini puzzle books, face masks, cute mini bottles of wine, chocolate bars, bag of pop chips, sweets and a candle x 3 (for 3 teachers)

Couldn’t find a thank you card though and didn’t want to/don’t have time to drive around other shops to find one. All I could get was a card with stars 🌟 on that says “well done you!”

Is a “well done you” card patronising??

Was going to write something along the lines of…

Well done to all of you for all your hard work this fantastic school year! I’m sure you’re more than ready for a relaxing break now, hopefully these gifts will help with that!

Thank you for everything. Have a great summer.

Kinda embarrassing writing this lol but here’s goes nothing

How can I be more sexy for my man? We got into an argument kinda the other day and I asked a separate question and he brought up me not knowing how to be sexy. I feel the complete opposite of that bc when I would try to initiate sex or foreplay he is kinda turned off when I do it (idk, maybe that’s just me but the way he moves my hand when I try)

Just throw out some stuff that can spice up a relationship because I honestly cannot continue in a relationship where when I try to initiate sex “he’s not comfortable” his words. Which is weird. I mean since the conversation I am kinda turned off in wanting to have sex and I’m not scared but embarrassed to even try anything, and then he doesn’t like it or I look stupid. I guess you can say my confidence went down a lil but whatever.

**there was so much more to the conversation but if I keep going it’s gonna be so long**

Stay at home mom thoughts

I think the scariest thing about being a stay at home mom with no support system, no family or friends is if you guys break up you have no money, no house and no where to go so then you just become homeless.
Something that has been weighing on me heavily since me and my partner are not doing good for quite some time now.

Any mothers want to be friends

30 and up

Feeling so alone

I’m 7 months pregnant today. My child’s father and I just can’t seem to work. I’m feeling so guilty for bringing a child into a broken home, and feeling so alone. I know it sounds dumb but I’m missing intimacy which I haven’t had in so long. I also can’t get over the fact that I’ll have to share custody with him, I can’t imagine handing my baby over to him and not being able to keep him with me.
I have never felt so dumb, so alone, and just shameful.