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My minds on over drive x

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Im up late into the night every night

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So am I ... constantly overthinking x

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Whats everyone awake for?

My reason is my husband's bike has had 2 attempts of a theft, first time early hours Wednesdayand last night...my anxiety is through the roof.

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Can't sleep that's why I'm awake ...x

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I just dont go to bed till 1-2am usually

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I’m six month postpartum trying to shift some of the baby chunk. Who’s doing a 30 day challenge with me?! Lemme know we start 01-08-26

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If you financially didn't *need* to work, would you still?

I'm not talking millionaire status, but if you had enough money to live comfortably, maybe your partner earns enough if you're in a relationship, or you have savings or something, plenty to live a comfortable life, go on holidays/vacations and buy your kids nice things. Would you still work or would you be a SAHM? Even if you have a small baby/toddler?

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Feeling excluded by other mums

I work for the police force, however I am not a police officer, I work in CCTV and surveillance.

There's a group of mums that attend my daughters playgroup and sometimes after playgroup we would all go for a coffee at the cafe around the corner.

I noticed recently that I stopped being invited, I was driving out the carpark a couple weeks ago and saw all the other mums walking down the road towards the cafe. It got me a bit upset honestly and I had a little cry on the way home but I tried to just convince myself they'd forgotten to invite me or maybe decided to go last minute when I was already in my car. But tbh I did feel like a couple of the mums didn't like me, I tried my best to chat with them but they weren't very warm or chatty to me.

We were all at playgroup yesterday and I was talking to one of the mums who I'm closest with and I asked if they were going for coffee afterwards and she seemed a bit awkward and she was like "well S is organising it, maybe ask her"
S is one of the mums who doesn't seem to like me very much.
It felt so childish like surely we don't all need her permission??

I went along anyway and immediately felt out of place and like everyone was actively trying to ignore me, even the mums who I am friendly with. Like I was definitely crashing the coffee date.

The only reason I can think of is my job. I had mentioned it a while ago and one of the mums said "oh watch out, don't say too much in front of this one!!" And then another had mentioned in a joking way that I might know S's man (at first i thought maybe through work but I quickly realised they were implying that he's some sort of petty criminal)
They were all laughing about it and never really brought it up again but since them I've noticed a shift and I can't think of any other reason to exclude me.

Honestly it's got me really down and I've spent a lot of today thinking about it and I'm trying to look for a different playgroup to go to with my daughter. I had a wee cry to my husband last night and he says I've just to ignore them and keep going because our daughter really enjoys it and it's so close by, but I don't think he understands that most of the reason I go is to try and make mum friends.

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Am bored

Who’s in for a chat,please if your too holy maybe you should pass

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Cheater?

So I don't know who all saw my last post... But after a month of arguing about his fake snapchat and him saying he never cheated... The truth came out. He was having sexual conversations and exchanging nudes with other females who "look good".. I was a week postpartum while he did this... Am I dumb if I stay? I'm hurt, I'm disgusted. I don't believe anything he says. I feel like I wasn't good enough and that's why he did it. He's been boo hoo crying and non stop apologizing since I left him for a night to think. I haven't accepted my ring back from him. He's the love of my life. I want it to work with him but I'm not ready to forgive. I feel stuck... I don't know what to do..

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birth control????

im on the depo shot. ive been on it before years ago. but i dont remember this problem. i got my first shot 05/05/2026, at my 6 week pp visit. it went fine at first, buuuuut now in june and july I've been having alot of break through bleeding.... its a normal "period" like flow and such.. but its been happening quite frequently. anybody else have this problem?? my next dose/shot is 08/05.

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