Why is making friends at this age so difficult

Sometimes I just be wanting to call someone and talk about everything and nothing at all, to see if I’m tripping with my point of view ( most times I am), and to get some motivation because I be tired. Sheesh

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I totally understand. I’m 24 and also living far from my home country, so I know how lonely it can feel sometimes, especially being surrounded by a different language and culture. 🥹

I just wanted to say that you’re not alone. If you ever feel like you need someone to talk to or just chat with, feel free to reach out. 🤗 I may not have much experience or the right words, but I’m always happy to listen. 🫶🏻

For me I noticed everyone has their own friends that click I tried a moms group in my local area an made maybe 2 friends I try to invite them to places or just simply hangout but no one wants to or doesn't fit in I also look into kids in the same age group which is hard I've tried making a mom friend thru my kids school an each time I get ghosted.

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Hi, let me introduce myself. I am Clarisse, a Filipina, and I turned 33 last week. I am a proud mom of a CODA toddler girl! Is anyone available to be my friend and chat sometimes? 🥳☺️

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Is it considered cheating if your “boyfriend “ of 4yrs always tells you to leave I’m annoying I bother too much I am too much he’s done with me lazy bitch can’t support yourself when I’m sick plantar fasciitis and nervous system issues I did have a job but they weren’t compliant with dr notes
We have to kids he left state to work n miles away he still tells me then leave bitch go back to mommy and daddy
But still live at home w babies
Is it cheating if I download apps and talk to people if he tells me to gtfo

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months before delivery🫩

Feeling rubbish

I’m a 25 year old mam to 2 young children (2.5 year old and nearly 7 month old) and I just feel absolutely rubbish in my own skin.

I just don’t feel like me anymore.