I'm depressed that my 3yo son always wants TV right at daycare pickup what do I do

I generally wait a bit and I have a snack ready for him and it drives me nuts that all he wants is TV when he's in the car after daycare pick up so it's really bugging me and I feel like I failed

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Take him to the park or to the splash pad

Our 2 1/2 year old grandson is exactly the same when we pick him up from nursery. We let him play outside for half an hour and then let him watch one episode of peppa pig in our room before he goes to bed. Took a few weeks to get him into this and now he goes to bed without a fuss. I even went as far to say he can’t watch peppa pig because she’s now bacon. Cruel I know but it worked for a couple of days until he went to his great grandads house

Do you think maybe he could be overstimulated from nursery and want to watch a show for a bit and just relax? Does he watch an episode of something and then go on and do something else or is it constant wanting the tv? Cause honestly I love to watch a tv show after a long day and I know lots of adults do!

I let my son watch tv when he gets home from nursery, nursery knackers him out so much, it isnt worth the battle but he doesnt get to watch it at dinner so it really is only about half hour or so of tv after nursery and then its bath and bed time.
I slob out with a tv show at the end of the day so i can relate to him in that respect.

I let my 3 year old watch tv after nursery as well. My hubby and I feel he has had an exhausting day of playing, learning and being over stimulated, and little bit of Tv doesn’t hurt. I can definitely say it has not affected his speech or developmental growth at all.
We usually try and put an educational show on like number jacks or an animal planet show.

On a side note, him wanting to relax with tv might mean he is absolutely exhausted for a physical activity and may need a more chilled activity, like colouring, baking or reading a few books with instead.

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I'm depressed that my 3yo son always wants TV right at daycare pickup what do I do

I generally wait a bit and I have a snack ready for him and it drives me nuts that all he wants is TV when he's in the car after daycare pick up so it's really bugging me and I feel like I failed

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