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I work from home as a project assistant. I have my associates and a certification on project management from udemy. The job is supposed to pay 25 an hour biweekly. Right. So I started work on March 23rd. However they were paying me A LOT more. No one noticed. I just left my abusive ex and I am filing for bankruptcy to rebuild our financial future. My lawyer said to move money from one account to another before filing so I did. My employer caught this overpayment because I re did my direct deposit. They asked why didn't I say anything but I figured it was a pay increase because of my credentials. Fortunately I didn't get fired because it was a mistake i
on their end. Nowww, I gave them back the overpayment which was like 10k . Fortunately I didn't spend it. I'm rebuilding my life and I had it saved up. But now after this correction. I received my new pay and it's still overpaid. What should I do? What can happen if I don't give it back? Can anyone find out? Because technically this is on payroll and not on me. Like if I wait to tax season could my employer find out about the overpayment then? This is also a temp position with the ability to go on longer for a year. _i started on march 23rd and I love the job and my boss, blessed to have it and don't want to lose my position. Any advice and counsel is appreciated.

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Physical intimacy issues postpartum

Hey gals I need some advice - my fiancé is a very good and hands-on dad with my 6 week old son, but now I’ve been cleared at my 6 week appointment he wants to start having sex immediately and regain some of the intimacy he feels we have lost during pregnancy and immediate post-partum.

I do too, but I don’t think he understands my perspective - I’m still sore from my c section, my boobs are constantly leaky and sore from breastfeeding, my body looks very different than it did, I’m tired from exclusively doing the night feeds, and I don’t feel like I have much of a sex drive yet (even though I do also miss the intimacy).

I guess from my perspective I just don’t feel physically or psychologically ready just yet. I have told him this, but all he says is “you’ve changed, it’s like you don’t care about me anymore”. It’s not that I don’t care about him, it’s just that my priorities have changed. I think, as much as he’s a good dad, he’s a bit jealous of the little one and how much of my time and attention he gets - my fiancé interprets that as me not caring about him, not me being a good mother to our son.

Anyone else been through this, or have suggestions for how I can broach this in a careful way to try and resolve this situation?

I miss sex

I’m almost 3 weeks postpartum and I miss sex so much. Idk if it’s the hormones or what. Me and my man would go weeks without sex when I was pregnant and then at the end we started having sex a bunch to try to get the baby out but it wasn’t really enjoyable. Now I just want sex so bad but I know I can’t because of the risk of infection and everything is still going to be loose but I wish I could because I actually want sex now and it won’t be uncomfortable because of the baby.
Just a rant really and seeing if anyone else can relate.

I feel so lonely.

Why is parenting so lonely!!!

Maybe its just me 🤔

But when girls hmu saying "add me here" and we dont speak, I swear its because they want more followers LMFAO dumb asf 🤣
(And to the ones where we do socialize and what not, omg youre the best and I hope your pillows are always cold)

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Hey! I am looking for friends. It can be check in sometimes or it can be text everyday; doesnt matter to me. Personally I message everyday but don’t mind 🫶☺️. Its hard to find friends these days. They usually disappear hahaha. Btw I do form conversations!!

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Physical intimacy issues postpartum

I miss sex

I feel so lonely.

Maybe its just me 🤔

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