Is it overstepping that my daughter’s stepmother called her school asking if they offered field hockey?
Yes my daughter has interest in it but I’m finding out today that stepmom called the school asking if they offer it after school.
Is this overstepping?
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I guess I don’t see any problem with asking a question. But if she actually enrolled her in it I would think she would talk to you first.
No. Especially if the child has been showing interest in it and you didn’t call yourself.
I think it’s cute actually, unless she herself told you she did it afterwards in a show boaty way of like trying to shame you for not checking first 😅
No.
Maybe Dad asked her to call.
Maybe she’s trying to be supportive and help out. These are just some things I could think of. But I don’t think making an inquiry phone call is overstepping.
No it’s not overstepping. Your daughter expressed interest, she just called to see if it were something possible to foster.
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